The goal is to have a meaningful personality and interests.

 

If you're thinking of a transactional "If I do this then women will like this" you've already lost.

 

I know people that play D&D on weekends or do inscrutable things like try to write a textbook on biothermodynamics and they have meaningful relationships. It just means they have a unique personality and healthy interests and thus are a rounded person. All in all, it just means you are interesting. If you spend your free time, even an hour or so a weekend on brewing beer or just growing plants on your windowsill it shows that you have a degree of independence and thought that someone else doesn't have and thus makes you different.

 

If you are trying to find a gf or a meaningful partner then it's attractive if you have your shit together, can spend time with them, but also have your own healthy interests. An unhealthy interest of playing Destiny, LoL, or tabletop games for 10 hours a day, being unwashed, lazy and distant isn't attractive; and for some reason a vast majority of incels cannot comprehend this. Even if you were a millionaire and spent the majority of your time online, being unmotivated to do anything, and incapable of a conversation because you have no outside interests, you would never find a meaningful relationship with a woman. Reference: Elliot Rodger

 

I met my significant other online, and my inane hobbies were (when not doing experiments in lab) trying to grow a variety of exotic fruit trees (goddamnit I tried to grow pawpaw trees so many times) on my balcony, film photography, and working on a novel no one will ever see in my spare time. I'm not particularly good at any of the things, but I can talk in an impassioned way about scarification and what I would need for a dark room. My significant other does not care about kaffir lime trees or the mediocre pictures I have taken with kodak ektar 100, but me talking about that and being interested in those things is much better than some dipshit who only wants to fuck you and watch netflix afterwards because that's all they can do.

this. most people meet women via frenuloi

Depends on what you're looking for. I'm most interested in history, so there are subjects I can tell passionate stories about and aphorisms I can share. I've read a lot of Socratic dialogues recently which make me think about life and remind me of what sort of person I want to be. And there are general benefits like improving your vocabulary, increasing your attention span and reducing the strain on your wrists and eyes (I'm comparing to usual Bernd activities like mindless browsing and gaming here).

Back to 4chan with you, adventurer

How the fuck is this the serious discussion of the month?

Death to trannies but death to 4chan too

Their compensation of inferiority complex by spamming threads about them is annoying.

i dont see it as a flaw, just something they distinguish themselves by - even if its superficial

Even though I share that sentiment, I kinda miss them here.

Ah, I remember this guy. Omar Sulayman. Classic.

i remember those apples, they were between a recess and gordon wood!

At least you have this https://www.synthesisretreat.com/

and a better attitude than the rest of Europe

drugs are for retards

ignorant brainlet take I'm sorry to say

Can someone redpill me on cooking oils? I always read that you shouldn't overheat cooking oils. Not more than 210°C for my olive oil, supposedly no more than 230°C for coconut oil. But I have no idea how hot my pan gets in the first place.

olive oil has a low smoke point, so if you heat it too much for too long, it starts to breakdown and smoke, and you might lose some flavor. that's why high-quality olive oils will say "cold-pressed", they extracted it without heat so the flavor is retained. i never go past the medium setting on the burner when i'm heating it alone, but i might raise the heat once i add the food, because the temperature usually drops to an okay level when you introduce food. it's only something to worry about if you are heating oil by itself, i think

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Smoke_point

You should be able to smell it. But of course sometime by the time you reach the dial it is too late.

You won a presidential race. Those generally aren't easy.

Bump for English sources

THIS

There was one time when I unironically starved myself for 24 days. Full fasting. I ate nothing.

You may be unimpressed since 24 is not that much but the thing is, the first thing I consumed other than water was a full glass (a glass, not a shot) of vodka

I threw up and didn't get drunk at all, after that I felt bad for a week and started eating again to get rid of the constant nausea

Holy shit, you're lucky you didn't die or have to go to the hospital.

Such is life on the russia.

surely this is not allowed?

You roast them back ofc xD

"haha, yeah, thanks".

"Can you explain the joke to me?"

If you can't think of a snarky comment, just use your momma, or your sister jokes.

 

use your sister jokes to people who don't have sisters to avoid confrontations

The term 'ladies man' probably doesn't help your case here.

Once you're in a relationship you will definitely need to learn how to communicate and respect boundaries, but in terms of getting a relationships just learning how to be a generally respectful human being is a start. Sounds like you're on the right track if you're wanting to improve and grow yourself.

You don't have to dress well but you have to put yourself together somehow (just pick out things from Uniqlo). You don't have to be physically attractive but it helps if you aren't letting your body go to shit. You don't have to to be the funniest person in the room but you have to have a self of humor.

 

If you just don't know how to talk to girls go on Tinder or OkCupid and talk to girls there, it's not that bad. You'll learn what works and what doesn't. The better relationships I've had I've also been myself and not been a tryhard.

 

This illustration is scientifically inaccurate as members of the genus Apis breathe through spiracles on the sides of their bodies.

Fucking hell. I want to fug her but her boyfriend is unstable and could stabbity stab me, and it goes against my moral code to ruin relationships. And being the head of where I live only jeopardizes any such fraternizing.

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