Step 1:
Write a list with qualities you want your ideal partner to have. For example: Is financially stable, takes care of their body with exercise and hygiene, likes to do outdoors activities, etc. Whatever comes to mind and is important to you.
Do this now, and only then proceed to reading...
Step 2:
Now do your best to live up and embody these qualities yourself and put yourself out there. Engage with other people while you do it.
Step 3:
GF will naturally come to you.
30 messages omitted.