Step 1:
Write a list with qualities you want your ideal partner to have. For example: Is financially stable, takes care of their body with exercise and hygiene, likes to do outdoors activities, etc. Whatever comes to mind and is important to you.
Do this now, and only then proceed to reading...
Step 2:
Now do your best to live up and embody these qualities yourself and put yourself out there. Engage with other people while you do it.
Step 3:
GF will naturally come to you.
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me when character i really like (i want to corner them and make them cry,a way to show your love and affection, don't try at home and don't abuse real people)
not really, though i would not abuse my friends and partners irl since it's not okay, seeing your partner crying is not fun, it's cruel
but since we talk about fictional characters who will get nothing from your drawings/thoughts etc, coming from character idealisation to gruesome way of showing your affection is a result of how long you stick with certain character, as if "honeymoon period" coming to end
i sound like lolicon with this "it's fine as long as you don't rape real children"... it wasn't a goal to object an abuse towards the character, rather an attempt to explain why i feel this way
I think I have inhaled asbestos yesterday... And now I have weird taste in my mouth and nose. But I ALSO got very intoxicated, which can also be the reason behind it... I don't know what's happening to me. I am afraid of asbestos.
nono by intoxicated i mean drunk, but it's good to know that the foul taste is from that
i was drunk and came over to my friend who asked me to help him transport a roll of some yellowish fiber, i thought that's just foam plastic but something was fishy, and when i asked he said "yeah i think it might contain asbestos"
I'm very sorry but that's a very ГДР death to die
turns out i walk five kilometres from home to work every morning, today i ran these five kilometers because i was afraid I'd be late,
imagine running five kilometres in a sweatshirt with a backpack on your shoulder when running has never been your strong suit
im fine with walking for an hour instead of bus or taxi, just today i was supposed to come earlier than usual and didn't want to be late, so when it was 10:51 and i was supposed to be at work around 11:40 at least, and my fucking bus was late, i ran, and got to workplace first (11:25, earlier than expected)
no wonder my legs are fucking sore
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Starting building it as of today.
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My brother has a new gf (1 year) and she needs all the attention she can get from him and it is like all the interesting things in her life are my brother.
Even without being invited she just spawns in our house every day. My brother now plays vidya, practises his instruments, smokes weed, or really does whatever when she is here because obviously he gets bored with her and she doesn't have anything interesting to say besides asking him to comment whatever she has on her opened phone.
Also she doesn't speak english at all so now we watch series with german dub on the big TV whenever she is here and since she is always here this is really starting to annoy me.
My brother deserves better.
I leave all my negative thoughts here because I don't want to talk my brother into something.
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day 6 without caffeine and this is horrible, quitting alcohol was way easier
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i like to think kc is anonymous interest club, where we gather together in the circle, sitting on chairs and telling what's on our minds
i will start: i hate couples kissing or making out in public, it's gross and no one wants to see this shit
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