Bernd
2025-04-30 08:16:43 ⋅ 3d
No. 340055
desiring equals suffering, when you butthurt from the fact you haven't got what you want, you catch yourself thinking you suffer from wanting, that's what i keep thinking of past few days, and believe or not but i feel ease from not desiring something, knowing i will end up suffering from the fact i haven't got what i want
still i think does it mean you shouldn't do anything in order to not have desires? or you just shouldn't have high hopes in order to not be disappointed later?
Bernd
2025-04-30 08:16:55 ⋅ 3d
No. 340056
sometimes i think
Bernd
2025-04-30 08:18:10 ⋅ 3d
No. 340057
if i won't get the parcel today it will be my fault i put too much hopes and butthurt again
Bernd
2025-04-30 08:54:47 ⋅ 3d
No. 340058
>>340057
got the parcel but not all the items i ordered
>fell for that again
Bernd
2025-04-30 09:13:58 ⋅ 3d
No. 340060
>>340058
butthurt cause things don't go as i want to
>fell for that again
Bernd
2025-04-30 09:59:44 ⋅ 3d
No. 340061
buddhismpilled
Bernd
2025-04-30 13:50:30 ⋅ 3d
No. 340063
>fell for that again (cause i seethed over someone having fun while i work hard)
Bernd
2025-04-30 13:51:42 ⋅ 3d
No. 340064
>>340061
we break the cycle with this one!
Bernd
2025-04-30 18:21:51 ⋅ 3d
No. 340075
Yesno.
Having hopes and desires help to move forward, they give some motivation, not just to exist, but to make en effort.
Handling failure and disappointment is more important, this is what we should learn better.
When Gautama Siddhartha started out on his journey, first he tried to completely gave upon desires and turned to asceticism, then he realized that's not the way forward. He become Buddha when he reached equilibrium. As Jesus said, we have to give to Caesar (body) what's his, and to God (soul) what's his.
>>340061
Not just Buddhism tho. Christianity also says that "wanting" is not something to aspire to. Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloth, Envy and Pride is all about "I need more, I want more, I deserve more". **Only Wrath is selfless - better to give than get, amirite.**
Bernd
2025-04-30 18:58:57 ⋅ 3d
No. 340076
>>340075
i need more, i want more and i deserve more though
Bernd
2025-04-30 19:09:21 ⋅ 3d
No. 340078
>>340075
Негрпедик
Bernd
2025-04-30 21:08:14 ⋅ 2d
No. 340085
>>340075
idk, from what i've heard the theme of giving up desire seems to be central in buddhist stuff. like it's the one thing conductive towards the ultimate goal - ascension to nirvana.
not sure if it's the same for christianity. i think it's more about submission to God and so giving up desires is just corollary to that
not a theological expert thou
Bernd
2025-05-01 08:25:00 ⋅ 2d
No. 340108
>fell for that again
Bernd
2025-05-01 15:20:14 ⋅ 2d
No. 340115
Bernd
2025-05-01 17:35:49 ⋅ 2d
No. 340122
>>340115
i deserve tasty pasta all'assassina though
Bernd
2025-05-01 20:47:21 ⋅ 1d
No. 340149
Bernd
2025-05-02 11:09:28 ⋅ 1d
No. 340185