Tomboys are okay, I guess, except when you get a crush on them and they seem to like you too, but you're too shy to ask them out, and then years later you find out they moved to Australia and married a girl.
>Don't watch them then. Cancel them.
That's pretty much what I'm already doing, although in practice, it means not watching any new movies anymore for the rest of my life, because I don't know in advance if they contain a "triggering" scene.
>Why wouldn't you instead watch a movie where people are equal and it's never okay to beat someone?
Because it wouldn't soothe my resentment. But if you can recommend any such movie, I might still watch it.