>I feel disconnected with this decade's music
I can relate to this. I also listen the same music over and over. Except there is a bunch to pick from. Except some has nostalgic value and generally wont pick them because of this. Occasionally I find something new. Some net radios helped in this in the past. Or I search something on youtube and go through the hits and then something comes up.
For example I started to search Funky Cold Medina covers, and I found a breddy fun one by a metal band called L.O.C. so I dl'd their other songs from youtube. Then I found a covery by the Mexican rap-rock band, Molotov. And then I searched some stuff from them and tried to torrent albums, sadly could get only 2.