why not just date a trap at this point? They act more girly than modern women

I don't want a girly guy.

I want a not too girly girl.

How old are you?

27

Did you have a strong father figure as a child?

How do German families differ from American families?

tomboy fitgirl = good

t. knower

Yes.

Not the poster, but just something that crossed my mind

I am a German millenial and had/have male friends around my age who had a rather meh relationship to their fathers. My dad is particularly old and was actually born in Nazi Germany after WW2 started and I did not have a great relationship with him although it being really awful only started in my youth.

WW2 related traumata that are passed from generation to generation and how they influence(d) nurturing is still a topic here as far as I know. It's probably similiar for US soldiers that returned with PTSD and fathered children after war.

I wish me and my father had a better relationship. Like, we get along well, fights are rare, but we are not that close as other people are with their parents.

 

Feelsbadman.

I have quite good relationship with my father, but he's a cunt, and I can't but tolerate that.

Such cases.