Whats bumble date?

How does Bumble compare with Tinder and OKC?

Bumble is a dating app similar to tinder.

 

I haven't really used OKC. But I prefer bumble to tinder because it makes it a bit easier to put text on your profile and grilles usually have more info on it compared to tinder. In my city there seems to be more university students from social sciences on bumble. I'm not sure if that is a good description, but a slightly different crowd.

The gimmick is that only women can text first, so maybe that seems more feminist to some.

We kissed :3

I haven't kissed since December 2019

I have kissed two times since then.

We're planning to meet again, but I feel kinda sick at the moment.

I got some wine for us. I really hope I'm not sick on the weekend.

Good luck Bernd, i hope you get to coom deep insider her and maybe even build a loving relationship.

t. alsways messes up in dating apps and loses faith in them and himself

I also "always" mess up. I went on several dozen dates last winter until summer when I kinda stopped trying. Then, all of a sudden, this girl messages me and asks to meet for coffee. I went there, we talked and I wanted to say goodbye, but she asked to hang out in another place and we kissed.

 

Similarly, about two years ago I thought there was nobody I wanted to see on tinder, but then I matched with this girl I thought was a bot at first, because her pictures were so good. We text for weeks and eventually she becomes my fwb for about a years.

 

I'm saying, don't lose hope and don't stop trying. Maybe switch things up or do something else, but never stop trying.

 

Thanks for the good wishes, too :3

You mean, a girl you hadn't talked to chatted with before...?

Right. We matched and she opened with "hey, how about some coffee on the weekend"

 

That's the best sign, if the girls opens the chat, those are the ones I've been most successful with. What app was that you were using in this situation?

Bumble.

This app forces girls to send the first message, but usually it is just "hey :)" or some comment about a picture on my profile. No girl has ever asked me out for a date on the first message.

Second date tomorrow.

When are you getting married?

GAY

I did :3

We were supposed to meet again today, but I got sick and had to cancel. I'm immediately thrown back into a depression and feeling of worthlessness because now I can't realize plans I had made for this week and it feels just like when I did nothing because of depression.

 

When we met, we had a short talk about our relationship. She said that she is just looking for a bit of fun at the moment and just came out of a long relationship and doesn't want to jump into one again. That seemed ok for me at the moment, but now I'm thinking I maybe want a bit more. I feel really bummed that she isn't here to care for me now and I had to pace myself with texting her, because I kinda wanted to hear about her day and how work was and stuff :(

 

So I'm a bit bummed but I also know I wanted to learn and experience more about relationships since I missed out on that earlier in life. I'm doing some of that learning and experiencing now, I think.

Still sick :(

Feeling better. When I feel good again tomorrow I'll ask her if we can see each other again :3

is she gf/wife material?

I think so.

I don't know her that well yet, we've only met twice. But I feel really comfortable with her and she seems like a wholesome person. All I want to do right now is cuddle with her. But I'm not sure yet if we can be together long term...

She said she just comes out of a serious relationship and is more interested in "fun" at the moment. So we'll see how it goes.

Good luck, don't fall in love too quickly, Berndu ;)

 

 

 

I recently showed interest in a girl but she rejected a date. She seemed nice at first.

Soon later I learned that she spams tiktoks and twitch livestreams and shiet and likely is surrounded by orbiters so I dropped her.

 

Now, a month later she is begging me to join her "new band" and wants me to help her find more people for her projects.

 

Typical woman behaviour. Ridiculous.

We'll see. I'm 26 but I have only had one serious relationship and started dating kinda late. (I was a virgin until 19). I think there is some value in just experiencing more careless love like a teenager to make up for past experiences, but I also don't really know what I want. I'll just let things happen and go with the flow.

For now I know I like this girl and want to spend time with her. There are doubts in the back of my head but I don't want them to stop me from experiencing and learning about life.

thats normal Bernd...

It is on the later end of average and I had no experiences with women prior. And no normal experiences after. It was always some weird fwb, cuck, cheating or asexual thing.

Meeting her again on saturday 🥰

 

what do you mean by this?

Postponed for sunday 😐

But we texted a bit and it is nice talking to her. I hope she doesn't just want me for sex and we can have a deeper relationship.

isn't that what woman usually think?

it's because they are constantly projecting

I'm a bit of a woman.

Ok, I'll stop updating this threda since nobody seems to care but it seems to be going well and I'm happy :3 We're all gonna make it, Bernds.

it's cool I just don't know what to reply also I wish I had a gf to go on date with

im reading bernd

 

keep going

I made the mistake of fapping the same day as meeting her. But then I couldn't cum anymore during fuggenings, felt bad. I have difficulty achieving orgasm anyways. Condoms and alcohol make it even more difficult. She said she loses her libido on the pill, so I don't see condoms being out of the picture anytime soon. We'll see how we will make dealings with this problem.

 

In any case, I mostly lost the interest to look at porn or fap on my own time anyways, I just did it out of habit yesterday. But real life sex satisfies horniness much better and longer lasting than masturbation. I'll try to just not do it if the opportunity to fug is near.

I take back my words.

 

I'm still insecure, awkward and mentally ill. But after two years of not being touched by women I have managed to wet my noodle again, yes. I also have a big benin and know how to use it, so once they give me a chance they like to come back for sex. I'm suffering, though, because often I rail them for hours and can't even cum. Don't circumcise your kids, Bernds, and please try to invent better kinds of birth control.

Whoa whoa, are you some sorta turk to end up with a cut bepis in the Germany?

I had phimosis (tight foreskin) as a child and got urinary tract infections as a result. Doctors recommended circumcision and thus it was done. I know two or three other guys with a similar fate.

I never had any problems, can fap and fuck just fine. But cumming during sex is a bit more difficult compared to other guys, from what I hear. Especially with condoms it can be a little challenge. The majority of times I do cum just fine, but it can be an issue.

At least you had an excuse. My parents lobbed mine off and as a result I don't feel anything during sex but I sure can feel my cock chafe when I'm walking or doing any physical activity.

No use in crying about spilled milk of the past. Only dealing with problems of today matters.

Regarding chafing I recommend getting proper underwear that cradles your benin and secures it snugly.

I found using loose fitting sweat pants to be the best alternative.

Dogdors wanted to snibbedi snab my foresking too.

As a kid I had irrational fear of benin falling out of skin if I pull it too far back. Dogdor didn't get the issue is psychological, not physiological.

It's fixed itself tho. Well, mostly. Feels a bit tighter than it should be

Many such cases.

404 foreskin squad reporting in

 

i even said i dont want this as a kid at ~5 y/o when I was shown the different ways of how the doctor could remove my foreskin on a piece of paper

 

 

i said i dont want the one with the most foreskin removed but they didnt give a fuck

Can someone make me a mod please? I want to delete that picture.

Why? It's a great picture.

uh oh

She is sick at home atm. She said she would have asked for a date if she wasn't sick and declined when I offered to bring her chicken soup.

 

Anyways, she decided to start watching Star Trek and I recommended starting with TNG. She got through Encounter at Farpoint without quitting but said she hasn't really warmed up to Star Trek yet. Do you think she will?