I tangentially met my bf as a result of /int/. Saw people talking about interpals on /int/, and tried to see if I could find the retards on that site.
Although, I'd say I'm a somewhat rare case, as I doubt many women use interpals to shitpost. However, I'm certain that you'll have better luck finding women on any other service besides Tinder. Tinder is the bottom of the barrel, and you'd be hard pressed to find a woman on there that has redeeming qualities. That's fine for a quick fuck, but I doubt that is the long term goal for any of you.
Besides, a lot of you guys have redeeming qualities. I'm not telling you not to change--you should always strive to be a better version of yourself--but you shouldn't have to compromise on what that better version is. You won't find that on tinder. You won't find a girl who likes your weird idiosyncrasies, or someone who is happy that you enjoy your hobbies.
It's kind of a lottery. There are a lot of fish in the sea, but there is also a big pacific trash island. You've just gotta keep increasing the amount of interactions you have with women in the correct settings. Tinder is the trash island, and you're wasting time by using it when you could be searching in other places. So long as you are in enough social settings, you should eventually find someone who is into you.
Modern dating is hell, and I wish you all luck.
