Kek, that's unexpected
I came from Europe to the US not so long ago and since I still don't have my docs and a normal job, I rent a room from one lady who lives alone with her small daughter.
After a while I realized the lady is such an interesting specimen for analysis.
So lets start with the fact she doesn't clean almost at all (only a couple of times a month she would clean the hall lightly for her daughter's tutor while her room, her bathroom, and the kitchen are constantly messy with things thrown all over the floor). She doesn't have a notion of tidying her desk or a shelf, or anything at all. She even cannot keep in mind where her part of the fridge is or how to close a drawer or closet door after herself. If I don't close the drawers in the kitchen, they all stay open(the doors of her closets and drawers in her room are always open). I even did the experiment by closing the doors in the kitchen and then observing how she makes them all open. Her hand goes to the drawer, she opens it, takes out a glass, then her hand makes a motion as if to close it and, stops midway, and never achieves the process of closing.
The same goes with the fridge The fridge is separated into two parts, mine being the right one. Very often I find things that she put in my part of the fridge. I also did an experiment with it - I would leave an empty spot on my side of the fridge and then observe her put something in the fridge - she opens the fridge, her eyes absentmindedly scan for an empty space, she put the thing that she held in her hand at the empty space and she closes the fridge(at least one thing she can close, lol).
One time I tried showing her how to tidy up a shelf in the kitchen and she started whimpering - "No, I cannot do this, I remember I had this roommate that was forcing me to clean and it was hell! No, please, let's not do this!"
I got very interested in what the hell is wrong with her(cause it's clearly some sort of disability) and started accurately asking her about her past. Here is what I learned:
She started hating cleaning in her childhood. She told me her parents were forcing her to clean and maybe it is the reason she hates cleaning. After more inconspicuous questioning, it turned out her parents were simply asking her to clean up a bit to which she was throwing tantrums.
She was married twice and both her husbands divorced her and possibly one of the reasons was her utter refusal to clean. She told me her first husband was asking her to clean after she cooks to which she absolutely refused saying "I'm much younger than you, be glad you can fuck a young girl and don't force me to clean". He hired a maid and soon divorced.
Her second husband divorced with her pretty quickly even though they had a child. I suspect not wanting to clean played a big role in it as well. I met him a couple of times and he was joking about how she never cleans anything.
And there are plenty of more examples of her not wanting to clean and suffering because of it.
So now I would ask the psychologists and doctors in here - what could be the reason of such behavior? Is it physiological, some sort om ADHD? Or is it psychological and might be somehow related to the fact her mother took her to States from the Soviet Union while she was a little kid and she never saw her father again?
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He did throw away everything they gave him, it seems that he has obsessive-compulsive disorder, he thinks that things have germs, he did not like some colors like red, he would get paranoid about thousands of absurd things, he would not accept any food from me, he told me that I secretly spit it out, lasted up to 5 days without eating.
Should I do it?
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I'm a rapefugee from kohlchan, I moved here because I'm tired of angry incels, nazis and pedos
I hope more Bernds see how much Kohl sucks and do the same
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due to the flood that is happening in /HS/ I have lost some good threads, I hope that the mod in turn will do its job.
Also use this thread as a refuge for Hispanics, let's follow the rules of this board
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I have some ideas over how to implement self-moderation (by building up reputation if you've been active in reporting stuff in the past, at one point system will start automatically trusting your reports) but needs to be finetuned a bit & adjusted so that it isn't easily gameable
So do I. Just saying admin needs to be careful and why it's not as easy decision as it looks.
>I have some ideas over how to implement self-moderation (by building up reputation if you've been active in reporting stuff in the past, at one point system will start automatically trusting your reports) but needs to be finetuned a bit & adjusted so that it isn't easily gameable
I think your self-moderation system can still be abused. Someone can report correctly enough to get trusted and then abuse of it when that happens. I think human mods are always going to be needed.
>So do I. Just saying admin needs to be careful and why it's not as easy decision as it looks.
Okay. You are right.
>2023
>WW3 has started
>for whatever reasons you are fighting in a irregular unit
>You are the one in charge of commiting war crimes
What song are you listening to?
This is mine
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I imagine myself running with a rifle in my hands, hearing missiles crashing in the buildings and bullets following me by a foot of distance. My eyes are completely open and I barely blink, I can't think and my heart goes really fast, pumping and pumping. I start hearing the bells of a church, but there is no church here. My psyche stop to view reality as it is altogether and I enter in a monomaniacal state of vengeance and self-thanatos, going after them without caring for myself anymore. I achieve the trance of death. Suddenly I wake up in a hospital and they say to me: "Congratulations, soldier. You have killed more than 10 russians and your wife is alive"
Umineko "When They Cry" BGM. MIRAGECOORDINATOR.
Applying for 3rd credit card now.
Will get 200 free money from in an months.
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How is your evening, Bernd? Are you enjoying yourself?
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Art: tried mixing some cheap perfumes with some vape juices (Rever perfumes + The Perfumer's Apprentice vape concentrates)
IT/CS: got an old "gaming" laptop exactly like the one i had 14 years ago to add the extra notch of nostalgia to playing Flatout 2, Fallout 2 etc.
Diet: Harrier Du Bois moment: learned to take magnesium.
Now, here's trick: recently, my doctor taught me to consume potassium as well. Now I feel healthier, my shitty "black circles under eyes"
Clothing: i got a lot of pre-owned sweaters recently, which come with zippers.
Turns out those are starting from 100$ but not "too expencive"
https://www.campione-shop.com/claudio-campione/sweats
