i think of it this way:
1. if god exists, is all powerful, and wants to contact me, he will, in a clear and straightforward manner (no "sign from god" coincidence bullshit)
2. if god exists, is all powerful, and doesn't contact me, it means that I am doing exactly as he planned for me to do
3. if god exists, is all powerful, and doesn't contact me, and doesnt give a shit what i do, then it doesn't matter what i do
4. if god doesn't exist it doesn't matter what i do
of course there is a gray area of demi-goddery and such but that is usually pointless to pursue since it relies on such bullshit of gods being so powerless they cant make clear contact (which makes them pretty pointless as gods so ignoring them is still best option)
pretty self-serving but it lets me sleep at night
