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KC mod americano here!
Banned from gaysea for tinder posting :(
This thread will now be dedicated to girls I have crushes on but do not like me :(
I sent Olivia a rose. You only get 1 per month. It’s like a super super like. You will always be at the top of their stack of likes. No response... should have gave it to Shelby, she looks like a fun person to be around ;_;
No likes today again. Nothing. Of the 10 people I am allowed to contact a day I hear back from 0. I have done this for the past month to the same results. Before that I spent a month on bumble with no matches.
I need to face I’m just not wanted, by women, by society, by anyone. Into the bioreactor soup I go...
practice makes perfect
i know its a fucking pandemic and all, but just talking to strangers in public, even if not grils, is good practice
just make an effort to do it a little each day, and try not to skip days
just keep doing it till you dont overthink/worry about it like you do now
a lot of autists get stuck in their heads doing this kinda crap.
you gotta remember its just some other person one who prolly overthinks their own stupid shit on the other side of those eyes, even if those eyes happen to be heartcrushingly beautiful
people like to be treated like people, and sometimes, especially for really attractive people, they get treated like objects or commodities
but idk
start small
or should i say THICC ;^)
fat grils/below avg grils are a good way to build confidence in talking to grils
many of those kinds of grils are absolutely starved for any kind of attention. hell, even negative.
but as a wise man once said:
>"ya gotta slay a couple dragons before you get to the princess"
not to get all 3rd wave feminazi on ya, but wectern society is really fucking rough on "ugly" grils, and the expectations on how theyre supposed to look and act can absolutely obliterate their confidence to the point where they themselves give up, similar to you
you might find more of what youre looking for with a gril thats similar to you in this regard
imo, a lot of the selfdestructive nature of inceldom comes from idealizing these stupid/vapid but gorgeous whores who really have nothing going on under the hood. they get spit on by these twats repeatedly and retreat themselves utterly claiming to have seen the true nature of all feemails.
sad thing is, a perfect 3/10 on the ukraine prolly isnt what most of them even want in the first place, theyve just been brainwashed into thinking that. those kinds of chicks are super high maintenance, and a lot of times just terrible human beings.
imo, what bernd wants more than anything is some sort of actual irl human companionship
so try to shoot for that, as well as aim a little "lower", and not only will you be building valuable social skills, but you might unexpectedly run across what it is youre actually looking for
sry for the schizo rant, but your problem is an all too common one nowadays, and i think its easily solvable by just approaching the problem a little differently
also
PROTIP:
when you find someone who actually wants to interact with you, make sure not to frontload the conversation with all of your insecurities/worries/cynicism. depressed chicks w no self confidence, even if totally starved for attention, prolly dont want any more of that shit themselves
on the other hand, once you get to know someone a little better, it can definitely be a good thing to open up to someone. it shows you care about them, and that you trust them
idk
gud luck m8
polite sage for dubblebost