I've basically been ignoring her outside of important matters because I'm not interested in socializing with her in any way. It just struck me that it's her manipulative way of trying to coerce me into having a reason to interact with her again. She's always been very controlling - even when I decided to move out she was extremely upset I didn't let her in on the process and decision-making despite me being an adult who's lived on their own before.

So I'm not relying on her for anything right now, but she still tries to force her into my life and it makes me so repulsed. I genuinely think she's incapable of treating me fairly like a normal person. Before this happened she got a bunch of relatives to text me too because I was ignoring her.

I do remember her asking me for money often and I had no problem helping her back then, so it makes her offer of help look even more retarded.

It must be a touchy subject so I'm not going to ask.

Make sure to move as far as possible from her, texts and calls may be stressful, but knowing you are physically far from her will give you the air that you need.

Also it goes without saying but don't give her POA, not even temporary

thank you cube anon

I did move pretty far and thankfully she doesn't know where I live specifically