Can you cash out the money I sent you?

 

I hope you make 100% sure that your mom can't steal your money against. She will get more and more drastic in what she does trying to stop you. It would be best to not even give her an exact day when you move out so she does not have a deadline and does something stupid.

well yeah, just a trustworthy person with credit card needed

 

of course, first and foremost i need to get out of here, at least to make her cope with the fact i need my own place

 

it's especially interesting, because from the start she was ensuring me everything will be fine if i want to separate, but when it actually happened she started to cause scandals

 

i hid it, the only thing i worry is she can steal my father's birthday gift, as a "moral compensation" or whatever the excuse she can come up with

Does it surprise you that she steals 100$ from you after she already stolen 300$? She should not get in a position anymore that she can steal money from you. If you paid 300$ or 400$ to learn that lesson will not matter in the long run as long as you don't let her steal anymore.

To increase the amount of money you have and be more independent from your parents you can open a bank account and get a certificate of deposit account were it will get you uninterrupted compound interest. Your dad’s money will turn into 127.73$ - 177.16$ by the end of 3 year at a rate of 8.5 - 21. Which is not a lot but you can’t access that account until a certain time period, so your mom can’t get into it. Depending on how much time you have and your job it’s important to put more money in there so that will increase as well.

corporate bonds' market ,T Bills, Private Credit Investing ect. might make things worse or better. That’s the best thing that I could find on a sort notice

 

 

 

I really hope this is a joke.

like, i know it will likely happen but it still sucks

well.. it's not a bad idea of yours anyway, just a little troubling in realization

Effectively more like 5.5% because you have subtract yearly inflation against.

 

Putting money somewhere where you can't access it immediately only makes sense if you already have a financial pillow that allows you to react to outside events. Like you have to pay to repair something or have an accident where you have to pay for medical treatment. This is not the case for ukraine.

 

Just keep in mind that in a couple of days/weeks you don't ever have to see her again if you don't want to.

next week i plan to move to the new place anyway, she has to cope with it, attitude of her gets on my nerves i don't know how to come back home today without her complaining man, it's something you have to survive

You managed to tolerate her for 18 years. You will survive a couple of days more.

According to source1 the cost-of-living in Russia is 2,077.3$ the minimum wage is 321$per monthly or 19,242 rubles, (assuming worst case scenario) add that to what an flat cost in Russia (550$) then the following price of 44 per month(source2). That should OP with 696.7$ around 700$ if you put away 75% ( which can be your “pillow”/ emergency money) of your money away then you can put 174$ in your account. Taking your interest rate of 5.5%

The three years I give (which OP said that there moving in a week so not enough time) and the original birthday money of 100$. By the end of the year OP would have 698$ (source3).

 

Source1- https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/in/Moscow#:~:text=Summary%20of%20cost%20of%20living,New%20York%20(without%20rent).

 

Source2 - https://www.themoscowtimes.com/2019/07/01/russia-has-worlds-4th-cheapest-mobile-internet-research-says-a66221

 

source3- http://www.moneychimp.com/calculator/compound_interest_calculator.htm

A visualization of the cost of the flat

I don't want to read this thread, you escaping poccner or not?

Is it your birthday?

According to OP’s mom there are “ more opportunities in Russia” the same person who takes their money.

 

My advice stop listening to your mom go as far away as possible and go to Mexico or Kazakhstan. Mexico is part of Brics and Kazakhstan is trying to join your economy Would be safe. There is more freedom in less corruption in both of these places. It’s easier said than done through

 

yeah! you don't need to read anyway

15th November, yep

i aim more for eastern europe, however thank you for advice man!

 

i had an opportunity to taste the imported turkish cola, idk whether it's because of transporting conditions or containing conditions but it tasted bad lol

Go to Moldova, i think that most moldovans speak russian so there won't be any language barrier.

You are a a young man in the prime of your strenght. Don't let your mother stop yourself from finding your freedom or give you shit. You are much stronger than her. Drink a bit of vodka for extra strenght if you need to (you are a ryssä after all, or are you not, you traitor!??)

 

Bottom line: dogspeed, let nothing stop you

Real Bernds help a Bernd in need, anglo demon

There from Ukraine

I sent her ans 100€ when she said that she was starving but she didn't use it.

 

If she had a concrete plan on how to flee from Mordor I wouldn't have any problem sending her the money she requires but she refused. I think that is a good thing. It will be a good experience for her moving out on her own and earning the money to flee for herself. It will make her a much stronger person than if she would rely on the help of a wecterner.

I'm literally twice as old as her so I don't make myself any illusions of making her my gf. But I empathize with her because I've had my fair share of shitty parents myself. Years ago when I was still visiting kohl I've sent a suffering ukrainian some money and also some neet german on his birthday. No shame in giving ans fren in need some money.

It's like a man subscribing to an OnlyFans, simp behavior. Do you think he would have ever sent an actual Bernd (male) any money? No, of course not.

when

He followed my order so that I don't have to send her any money. Therefore, he sort of gave me 100 euro to me (male), as I didn't have to spend them.

It's a joint venture between me and him to not let the muscovytes convert another Ukrainian peasant into one of them. It's like when Turks abducted people and turned them into janissaries.

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As I've said I have already given money to male Bernds that were suffering as well. You are the only one Rudebernd, who I would never give any money to.

That's even worse.

It isn't, as I offered him a righteous cause and a dream to follow.

i see, but same thing really

we tried to transfer money on mom's fren credit card, but since the war started, major part of banks here don't allow to put the foreign currency on your bank account anymore, so yeah it remained untouched not on purpose

 

don't want to use it as an excuse, just don't have an opportunity to put it somewhere for now, so let it be a sort of piggy bank saving, just be here until i will get my hands on documents and finally be able make a bank account

 

because again, i don't want to milk you, im thankful you reached out though

Oh I have an Idea

i had an idea of making sort of anime gal out of heinrich as it happened to fritz, but make it more badass than fritz

 

lörs?

No, heinrich is my second favorite kc character