Tell her that the gate to Ukraine is about to close for you forever and that you don't want to spend the rest of your lives in postwar Russia, if it doesn't work and she ignores the voice of reason do the right thing and leave her alone. If it's hard to reach Moldova Turkey is always a stable option.
>save money by working with no weekends (25$ per day → 175$ per week → 700$ per month)
>pay the bill for passport making expired date
>search tickets to Moldova
<no tickets for plane
<no tickets for bus
>make mother to travel with me
<she doesn't like Moldova
>ask to stay for a bit longer
any other options? need to make sure her hands will not spend the money im saving, as she likes to do impulsive shopping
ah, forgot about Turkey at all, she'd possibly ignore me or scandal, like "if you're so mature pack your stuff and gtfo"
>gate is about to close
i guess she knows it, yet her procrastinating ass always tells "we need to solve your document problem" and doesn't go further than mere words, i have to deal with it by myself as well, would be a bureaucracy hell
>"if you're so mature pack your stuff and gtfo"
follow her advice. when you're 18 (unless you're in education) spending your time on anything other than reaching your goal is retarded. Look up and try to find people who solved simiar stituation, they're out there, a lot of people went through something similar (although they had to escape to russia from straight up war zones, but they found their way home or to europe afterwards). and start working on it now.
German Bernd will help you with money
thank you! i knew one who escaped the russia and moved to europe actually, but he had to travel to georgia first and change around 5 countries while relocating, though he's IT-bro, will try to reach out once he will be free from work, someone told me in December there's a program gathering ukranians in order to move to europe, always scary to think of what will happen next, but it's for better
>german bernd will help you with money
i remember germans donating once already, i didn't spend the donation yet so it would be wise to keep this for later, as long as no one like my mom planning on what to do with big amount of money, so... i don't want to milk foreigners, it's up to them though
Absolutely do ask that IT guy for help, but keep the pussy for the German.
But Europe should only be a temportal solution, you should choose Ukraine over Europe because it's the best country on earth.
Until the plan is fulfilled you will remain a ratmean, but there might be hope for you. If you have what it takes.
I am startimg to like the lore betweenyou.
Talking about escaping Mordor, I talked to some first year students today from foreign countries, they told me if they don't pass their exams they will lose their right to stay here lolol. Meanwhile one of my besties failed exams twice and should have been expelled from uni too but he faked tears and lied that many family members died so the prof gave in and gave him a third chance.
Life truly is unfair.
i actually remember chatting with german, he saved his girlfriend by taking from Ukraine warzone and generally was interested in learning Ukrainian (though he accidentally committed a sin by stacking the fork in pile of rye bread and salo... don't. ), we even thought of meeting together once war ends, but one day when i talked about my cat bossing around and biting me, he made a joke like "can he kill putin?", my mom saw the message and made a scandal to block him and quit the chatting, because "if someone will find out about this, we will be kicked out of country, we're illegal here, we don't want to risk", so after being scolded i asked my german friend why would he initially make this joke if we didn't talk about politics and cats about only, not because i care about the joke but because my mom kicked my ass for his message, so he took it as an offend, thinking im calling him an enemy of nation or so, and wrote a big message about it, so, guess what, i willingly drew a sketch with apology and myself with "Verräter" sign
i guess his spirit was haunting me for months for a reason
Everything indicates that seeking assistance and escaping is what you need to do, just don't postpone it any further. Later on it will be much easier to figure something out for your mom if you manage to find a place to stay.
Even bomzh tier existence somewhere in EU doing the same waitress job or whatever will be much better than whatever you have now. Also, get education, it's the most important thing in life, especially for a dumb goblin such as yourself.
So start doing something and ask people around. Time is of essence.
kvass shouldn't be sour, it contains yeast, malt extract and sugar, so it shouldn't be sour
kvass is sweet and has bread taste because of malt extract (t. was making homemade kvass this summer)
>chicken wrapped around frozen butter and deep fried
no, no no no no butter is *inside* the cutlet, and covered in breadcrumbs
let me save the money first, so i can have the resources to start with
>get an education
i know it's important, im disappointed about the fact mom didn't care about dealing with documents so i face the consequences, i still want to be a translator, but without an education i will never get the official job with salary im looking for
>especially for a dumb goblin such as yourself
well i can draw tits and have extra money at least......
>offer mom a job as a cook at my workplace, 40$ per day
>tell her about friendly colleagues, chill schedule (except for friday and saturday), tell her how one of our colleagues brought pastries and coffee
<"i will come for coffee and pastry, drink and go back to my job"
>job in question: cleaner of big ass restaurant, 30$ per day, had to clean several floors, always complains about being tired and pain in legs
<"anon, i eat well here, i met the girls i worked with in the first day of my job, today's banquet"
>tfw
she doesn't want to learn anything new, yet likes to complain how hard her job is
i don't know, the more i grow up the more i get acknowledged i have to deal with grown up baby, who likes nothing but complain but does nothing to change the situation
still working, no weekends, im planning to work restless at least until December (because of month of no-weekend job in November and i just started the.. challenge? two days ago, so 1.5 months of restless work)
>she doesn't want to learn anything new, yet likes to complain how hard her job is
>i don't know, the more i grow up the more i get acknowledged i have to deal with grown up baby, who likes nothing but complain but does nothing to change the situation
Mine is sames. She works part time, always has, and complains constantly about everything. She eats nothing but macaroni cheese, drinks eight cups of coffee with infinite cigarettes while whinging about her various health problems (all genetic, naturally - wholly inevitable).
At some point you will learn to smile and nod, let it wash over you, because inevitably her poor lifestyle will bring crippling or terminal illness and the time when you could say something about it will have passed.
You should get away quickly, so that you can appreciate her better qualities from a more healthy distance. The fastest way to do that is by merrying me
on my way to, mom said we need a jurist for that, which will cost the money as well, but afraid not!
i almost saved 140€ this week (not 175€ for now because i spent 25€ on rent this Monday, and started saving in Tuesday), i will proceed and save 415€ per the last few weeks of this month, combine to stated goal of 700€ and you will get 1150€ by the end of november!! isn't that cool? i will have enough resources for jurist,for bill and the bus!! (still didn't decide which transport i will use to move in, bus probably)
don't want to curse the luck,but i really have a feeling doors will open to me if i proceed working a lot
Why? I didn't want to offend you. Russia is a fine country to live in, seriously. The conflict with Ukraine will be over sooner or later anyway, and I doubt you live somewhere near the warzone, so you don't have to be afraid for your life. Try to find a stable job, a gf, and it will be all good for you.
Toxic while they are here. Whatever issues you have with your mum will only last as long as you are cooped up together. However you end up changing your life, that is near certain.
>don't you mind me blasting classical music throughout the day if i will be in your household?
Most of the day you'd have to yourself. I work a lot and then drop by the house on my travels. Also I hate my neighbours so the louder the better.
>i have a thing for Beethoven and Vivaldi, do you like to listen to classical music, btw
I listen to mahler's first sometimes, and i enjoy saint saen's organ symphony, but I don't know if they are considered classical. My friends recommended these to me and I suppose they stuck, but I don't know much about music - my tastes are pretty lowbrow.
Anything with a piano is probably going to be satie or debucci or something pleb like that.