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GermanyBernd2024-09-03 16:44:35 · 2yNo. 318375reply
I have ans problem. I have an incredibly strong feeling of shame, which makes me very reserved. For example I couldn't go to ans rave or festival and dance there freely, because I would be too ashamed moving and showing my body like that in front of people. How do I fix that?
GermanyBernd2024-09-03 17:29:59 · 2yNo. 318378reply
First you need to get comfortable moving your body to music. So start by listening to some music that you like at home and start dancing there.
 
Next step would be to go to some concert with loads of people where you are in the anonymity of the masses and dance there in the crowd.
 
Once you are comfortable doing that you should be easily able to do that at a bright festival.
If any of those steps seem too hard for you at first start doing this drunk and then reducing the amount of drunkeness at additional attempts.
BerndBernd2024-09-03 17:49:57 · 2yNo. 318384reply
Been there, done that.
Try magic mushrooms already.
GermanyBernd2024-09-03 18:18:48 · 2yNo. 318388reply
What about psychosis?
HungaryBernd2024-09-03 18:21:41 · 2yNo. 318389reply
Not bad advis.
And if the problem is more general, and the example was really just an example, can help beyond. Somewhere OP has to start.
BerndBernd2024-09-03 19:13:49 · 2yNo. 318400reply
What if... What if...
What if you don't try the medicine that can actually fix you? What you need is a better self esteem. You likely have reoccurring negative thoughts in your brain, you might not even realise they are there but they are shaping your reality.
 
Going for a reset to set all those wires newly is an absolutely good idea and you should do it.
GermanyBernd2024-09-03 19:16:42 · 2yNo. 318402reply
just dance
FinlandBernd2024-09-03 19:45:27 · 2yNo. 318403reply
that is a noble trait there is nothing to fix
HungaryBernd2024-09-04 07:13:35 · 2yNo. 318432reply
>better self esteem
That comes from confidence in own ability. And that comes from practice. Here: >>318378
LebanonBernd2024-09-04 08:25:37 · 2yNo. 318435reply
Used to be ashamed of asking girls at parties to come back with me to fug. Took a bunch of coke once and figured out that my upbringing is bullshit and it's all on my head, didn't have problems since then, even sober.
 
Still do coke sometimes though.
 
Man up and do some drugs, they are good at breaking up hardwired patterns in your heda.
GermanyBernd2024-09-04 10:45:26 · 2yNo. 318437reply
This reminds my of an episode of a german youtube series about how to dance when you can't really dance. Maybe this helps:
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