Is this a poz-friendly party? Use protection if you're not looking for the gift.

What if all of them are strangers, how do I find out who's to like?

 

What? I won't have sex there.

Either try to spot a person that is not in conversation with somebody and try to talk to him to get to know him. Or if people stand around in groups just try to stand with the group and listen to their conversation and maybe try to contribute something there so people start to accept you as a participant of that group.

why go then

It's possible I will have interesting conversations and meet cool people, also my crush will be there

Drink a few beers for a slight buzz and try having an open mind. There might be interesting people to talk to. If not, don't be ashamed to go home already after a few hours there.

The party starts at 17:00, should I be there at that time already or come later?

Come already a little drunk to not be kc tier initially, you will have advantage and will get the girl it's guaranteed. Have two beers before going and have three more at the party.

Bring a watermelon for everyone to impress her.

Come around 20-22 and have drank a few beers already like >>317913 said.

 

An advantage of being early is that there will be only few people so you have an easy time making a bit deeper connections.

It can also be awkward though waiting for the party to start.

No, he should come early AND already drunk. What he needs is to establish some connection indeed, and it's best done early on. Coming drunk in the middle of action will lead nowhere and the party will soon end.

If Moroccans or Turks are present try to get some bath salts from them, don't inhale it yourself keep it for the girl you want to sex. Look for the ones with tattoos that's a telltale sign she will spread her legs for a single thin road of white powder.

 

Trust me.

Hmm it would be ideal to know when my crush will arrive, because she's the only other person besides the person that invited me I know there. But asking her prior over WhatsApp would probably be emasculating, right?

Hm, I always just engage with people I want to have contact with. Then they can choose. It's way easier that way.

GOOD LUCK BERNDIEBERND!!

 

Are you already hyped up for your upcoming social event? :3

I'm a bit nervous, have thought of multiple strategies to approach people, let's see how it goes.

faito!

Why do I do this to myself

Ask them about their haplogroups

If she starts to dislike you because you can't handle social situations well you weren't meant for each other anyway.

I VILL be social and I VILL like it

say you have corona and stay at home

we need an update

On my way, will arrive in 30min

Has OP talked to his crush?

Place your bets.

Of course he has. She is one of the two people he knows there.

Still no post here from OP is a good sign.

If gets to kiss his crush tonight he turns into a Kein and can't post here anymore.

Im still at the party, crush invited me to ans rave now!!! What should I do ???

I did, whole evening actually

 

Nah I realized I’m firmly embedded in the friendzone

Good job Bern! Have you talked to other people besides your crush? Made any new frens?

Yeah, I got a bit lucky, because the guy I talked the most to initiated the conversation, very intelligent interesting guy, so really enjoyed that interaction.

Besides that talked to 3-4 other people who were also sitting in the same vicinity and overall had a very pleasant evening. When I arrived there, I wouldn't have expected that I'd be one to stay until the bitter end (3-4AM). But I did it and am glad about it, although I'm really happy that my crush was also there, because it's always easier, if you know someone.

 

So thanks to the Bernds who encouraged me. Next step might be going to ans rave or festival some time, do some drugs, explore things I have never done before.

if you're unfamiliar with drugs then i'd suggest bombing a small (half gram) dose of molly. you will be offered md if you go to a rave but too much with no experience of it is a bad idea.

just take it easy and don't do anything that you don't want to do.

if you are familiar then ignore this bost :::DDDDDD

nice

 

sad

 

Why are you so sure?

 

About the rave, get some moves down like the running man or even the T-step, you can for sure leave a good impression. (Assuming high bpm tech or DnB will be played)

Shuffling isn't too hard and it is a very nice full body workout actually.

 

Make sure to bring ear plugs if your ears are sensitive. People on raves have already fucked up their hearing and fucking it up even more by turning up the music way too hard is what they like to do.

As I said in another thread she told me she started using dating apps again and suggested I do the same, I don’t think she would do that if I wouldn’t be in the friendzone and I don’t catch any vibes or signs that she might be into me.

 

Also what are some beginner tier drugs to take on ans rave? I guess most people will use them there anyway and I don’t know if I can muster the courage to dance being sober

Maybe she is too shy to ask you out directly and hopes to match with you via dating app.

I unironically thought about asking her what age range she set lol (because we're a bit apart age wise)