no seriously i don't even know why but i want to make friends despite of everything bad happening, and it even started to work out

it feels pointless, be kind and friendly and supportive when no one asks for

It is hard to find good friends as an adult.

 

I think it is because as kids we didn't care whether a person is benefitial for you.

it is! now people have a high expectations for someone instead of try to befriend despite of how different they are from each other

Usually people don't see other people like that. They are more occupied with their own problems. Don't be so self depreciating.

If someone does not reciprocates your gestures you'd better invest your time in somebody else. I think you have these explosions of feelings that make you behave weird to people from time to time and if you want somebody to be your friend he should be able to see that and deal with it. Not everybody can or should be your friend.

thank you very much for your support!! oh i have a very patient friend, but he doesn’t last long either (well he's a person too after all), so it’s better to be friends with a psychotherapist

 

i still try somehow deal with emotion outbursts, sorry for shitposting on /int/ by the way :(

 

sad, but true

it is fine. Having one crazy person on the board that floods it with posts motivates other Bernds to post more. Otherwise this board would be dead silent most of the time.

ah hell yeah we're schizo ranting with this one!!

you seem to be a cool comfortable dude, stay safe!! thank you for listening 🫂

Yes, you should instead do the opposite and make an effort to distance yourseöf from someone who is of a mean character

reminds me of "be mysterious" memes

 

but your words make sense, the only thing that when you get emotional you want to rip the face off instead of keeping distance