if the only way to know what is normal is to ask people, then how can those people who were asked know? did they ask somebody themselves? that doesn't work though because for the knowledge to be transferred via questions, it first has to exist.
someone at some point would have to know what is normal so they could answer a child what is normal. how did that first person know? the first person could not have asked someone.
i guess you never thought that far and just want adults to give you answers so you can keep playing minecraft.