Listen kiddo, do you want to be a Juancito all your life or evolve to a Don Juan?
Let's say i have a friend
Such friend confesses to a chick
Such chick says no
Now, this friend is persistent, so he waits for a while and tries again, she says yes
Now, this friend discovers, straight from the horse's mouth, that the reason this chick said "no" at first, was because she was pinning for some dude
Then, you discover that she's hanging out occasionally for this dude, whos single
Should this man who we will call Juan be worried?
The situation is the following: she’s getting her pussy smashed to death by that other guy and she is expecting him to ask her to be his gf but in case that does not happen (it probably won’t, the other guy probably is just fucking her as any based Chad would do) she’s keeping you as an orbiter, you are basically backup.
If you want to stop being a little cuck you have several options: A) try to fuck her and if positive you dump her after fucking her for some time. B) stop talking to her and if she comes back with the tail between her legs you fuck her forma while and dump her C) you can follow this one but if you choose A or B you NEED to do this nonetheless: meet new women and fuck them.
Do not close your heart in case you meet a good girl, but if you recognize the red flags (as in this case) just give them the D for as long as you want and then leave.
Only then you will evolve to a true Don Juan and stop being little Juan.
based texas here here to give you the answer to your worries
it is entirely possible, that in the three years since she pined for the guy, the feelings went away. it is also entirely possible she's riding his balloony pony. you won't know, and juanito won't know. so what do?
nothing.
it's not your problem.
he shouldn't be worried as long as he has no children or is married to her because she's not "his". if she fucks, he fucks off. if she doesn't, then whatever.
the repelling personality trait to women, at least one of them, is insecurity.
why the FUCK should he feel bad that he discovered a woman cheated on him? He was able to figure out she wasn't worth his time, and saves himself further trouble.
>but but what if she was his partner and the love of his life and
then he wouldn't even be entertaining such thoughts in the first place, and your worries about his relationship are unnecessary.
it is wise to put yourself back into the mind of the medieval era men.
you, men, are the ones who have lasting value. you work, you bring money and food and take care of things. if she decides to be a whore, let her. you lose nothing. in fact you gain the opportunity to find a better woman. rejoice.
also tell juan to call his family members to go back to wherever the fuck he is there are too many of them here.
