> Pic related for example doesn't guarantee you a gf, my method does
nope, your method doesn't guarantee a relationship either, since you're treating this potential girlfriend like an object and not a person; sure, she might marry you if she's forced but do you really think she's going to care about you? she's going to despise you
> Although i have to admit i've never tried to approach a girl and flirt with her, might be some kind of stupid phobia that i cant get over.
you should start by making friends with a woman, so you can practice treating them like they're people - they won't seem so scary when you realize that
also, I would advise against just approaching a woman and flirting with her right off the bat since it makes it clear you're only interested in getting into her pants