All the gfs I ever had had talked to me and asked me out first and I just kinda said "ok", didn't even like most of them too much and always ended up unhappy. If I have had the confidence and picked the girls I like I would have been happier
I hate it that society expects us men to start talking to women. I wish it were reverse or at least common for women to start speaking to guys as well (probably it’s already common, but I don’t know about it, because obviously no girl ever started talking to me with romantic intentions or at least I didn’t get it).