do you want to be friends with her?

No but I can't stop. It's stronger than me, I must be in emotional distress.

I really like that you can share a bit of your daily life with a girl and it instantly creates topics for discussion.

stop doing this to yourself, fren

Create a persona in your head that has sex and pretend to be it until you become it

this works

 

t. knower

Ask her if she can hook you up with one of her frens.

8 months of inceldom behind me soon.

Nah... I am obsessed with her and she is manipulative and would get jealous :(

It's a very shitty situation.

 

21y... 22 soon, 8 months of inceldom is nothing

 

 

 

I'm going to try then

Getting her jealous are exactly the type of mind games you have to play with her in order to make her your gf or possibly get lasting psychological damage. Go for it.

Did you expect to have sex as a 1 year old?

I lost my virginity during my first semester at uni.

this is not how you build healthy relationships

I've had 4 female coworkers express interest in me in the past 4 months, but haven't sexed any of htem .Had one coworker ask me for a hug(which I declined) and ask to wear my jacket, I have another who has asked me to go to new years, asked for my facebook, and asked if I had any plans for my weekend.

 

I still haven't sexed them. Maybe I will by the end of the month, or next month.

 

t. KV

I have never had a female coworker talk to me

They like you for your work, not for who you are.

Source: I have no education nor any form of work and getting girls was impossibly hard for many years

If you go to a third world shithole. You can fuck as many women as you want

none of this means they want to ride you

How old are you lmao

They were literally picturing having a family life with 10 babies with him when they asked for his Facebook, you know nothing about women

Thing promised, thing due

Here is the report for January 16, 2023. 16th day of 2023 and still a virgin

last week behavior towards women:

- I continued to speak with the girl who frienzoned me on snapchat and on Saturday evening she told me that she missed me and that she wanted to see me again but did not want to do anything stupid with her boyfriend. I will continue to talk to her to keep her as a friend and, who knows, maybe one day it will work when she is more emotionally available.

 

- I had a lot of little conversations with girls from uni but it's still in the realm of friendship and I use it to improve my speaking skills.

 

 

next update : monday 23.01.2023

I still fail to understand why the incelbernds just wouldn't pay a visit to a prostitute, especially if they live in decent countries where hookers are nice and cheap russian pucci is available for peanuts.

I want to find a girl that I could support. In reality I don't care about sex, I want feelings, moments of complicity and build something solid with a girl.

 

Fucking for fucking is useless and it doesn't make you happy.

 

I just want to feel alive.

and stop using incel, I don't have hate towards women

Go to Cambodia if you want to feel appreciated. All chicks are gold diggers but they will pretend they do and they will do it too well

Because I want to be desired.

I can coom from just hand just as well if I wanted that.

I was going to comment just that, isn't it better to pay for a prostitute and thus lose your shyness? It can be of great benefit to you and it would even be profitable.

If you know that you can still pay a scort to make you "love" if that's what you want, and you'll feel good, but you have to live that experience for yourself, and not wait for magic tales.

Let yourself go for the moment because you will regret it later

the shyness makes it impossible to call a prozzie in the first place

This Bernd knows what he's talking about.

 

Drink two biers. Of coruse the first time's gonna be awkward, second will be a charm, third will be routine.

 

In order to turn your desperate chase of girls into a proper hunt with a set and exact goal, one shall desacralize "the female" herself. It's the only way and men have been doing this for ages.

ONE DAY LATE SORRY, I HAD EXAMS (EXACTLY THE SAME AS LAST WEEK REPORT lmao)

Here is the report for January 24, 2023. 24th day of 2023 and still a virgin

last week behavior towards women:

- I continued to speak with the girl who frienzoned me on snapchat and on Saturday evening she told me that she missed me and that she wanted to see me again but did not want to do anything stupid with her boyfriend. I will continue to talk to her to keep her as a friend and, who knows, maybe one day it will work when she is more emotionally available.

 

- I had a lot of little conversations with girls from uni but it's still in the realm of friendship and I use it to improve my speaking skills.

 

 

next update : monday 30.01.2022

The more the days pass the more I lose hope. My celibacy only grows day by day and it becomes always more difficult to live. The majority of the girls in my faculty are in a relationship and the others don't even look at me. I manage to empathize and create relationships but it stops there. God help me.

I wish I was just a normal kid.

Everytime when I am among normies I realize that even if I could act in a way that I would fit in with them I still would not be happy because I'm just no one of them and don't enjoy the things that they do.

Embrace your weirdness. Bee yourself, stay away from Stacys, and try to find a weird gf.

you should listen to >>250607 because he's given you actual good advice

january soon over, still no gf

A FIRM HANDSHAKE, that's all you need in this life, so pick yourself up and go get em.

update (one day late) : I really want to die.

Get help for your depression. I'm 20, never kissed a girl, never had sex, never had a real gf, but I don't want to die.

I'm a fucking failure...I can't have basic social interactions. Something is wrong with me. I am a bug in the matrix and therefore need to be erased.

If that's a problem for you, then get help. No way around it. But remember, you don't have to be sociable or like other people.

The more you try to enforce it, the harder it will take a toll on your mind.

Just try to get a better life on those actions you can manipulate and the chances of getting a gf will improve naturally.

Had a small talk about my incelism with my mom

 

she hugged me and I feel better

how where you not ashamed?

what did she say in return?

 

i could have never talked to my mom about this during my incel days

Why should he be ashamed of a sickness? Wtf.

It would take his mom literally 5-10 minutes to cure his inceldom and yet she choses not to. His mom should be ashamed.

That's disgusting (well depends on the beauty of his mom).

It aint just about that... In that case, i'd rather ask my dad if he can set me up with a russian girl because paying a escort is something i can do whenever i want but what i really need is female affection.