not even in elementary school where everything was easy? thats fucked up.

I do not recall ever doing that.

 

The idea is a bit 'tarded.

 

1. prepare lots of food and alcohol

2. invite people you like

3. forbid people you do not like from coming

4. they eat, get drunk and talk while sitting at a table

5. social circle for the next year is established, now you need to come to other member's next b-day "party". Don't forget about presents for extra re-enforcement!

 

meh bleh. Dog bless working from home.

i envy you aspies that don't crave for friends

when I was 6 my parents invited some kids from preschool, then when I was 18 people from school brought me a cake and gifts as a surprise; but I don't know if it counts since I don't think we were friends and I haven't seen them in over 10 years

 

sounds fucking exhausting

 

at least you don't feel like there is something wrong with you (most days I don't care but sometimes it feels bad); also I'm not certain it's an aspie trait - sure, they have difficulties with social interactions, but it doesn't mean the lack the need for them

I'm not usually home to celebrate so celebrate it just wherever I am, but when I'm home I like it to be a low key affair with my family, just getting a takeaway and chilling out together :^) happy birthday Bernd, have a great day.

last time with friends? Oof, I guess this year with my work mates, we got absolutely hammered.

I was relentlessly beaten and bullied in primary school

also, school protected bullies against me because some teachers were butthurt about me being smarter than them so they encouraged bullies to pick at me (and blamed me for everything)

other kids were also bullied if they tried being friendly to me, so…

teachers are literally child molester tier

teachers can be so cruel, I remember similar stuff, with getting hit by bullies and teachers loosing their shit when I kicked off. One kid hit me over the head with a big stick and I turned him black and blue, they where horrified when my dad high fived me and we went to the cinema straight after, based daddo

what happened afterwards? did you get an ASBO?

The school was pissed but my parents documented every interaction with the school and took notes when I said things like that happened and brought them to the school, I remember the teacher went quiet when my dad started reading out the dates and incidents, that was when I really noticed how sort of regular it was. I was pretty young like maybe 10 so don't remember too much but I do remember getting left alone after that, nothing bad came of it luckily