>is it hyprocritical to judge women for being slutty if you watch porn yourself?
No. It is hypocritical to judge women for being slutty if you are yourself a "chad" who pulls an one-nighter after one-nighter.
But me, a virgin whose "love life" is masturbating to porn, would be perfectly all right with a woman who's a virgin, but masturbates to gay Harry Potter fanfiction or whatever they masturbate to.