can't change the way you look

it is literally impossible to be incel on West... being real incel is MENA or Asian thing. You are volcel.

I agree

Can't change genetics

Just bee yourself dude.

i know that very well

 

now stop crying and at least change your outfit if you're ugly, get a hair cut etc. and most importantly become social, start talking, soon you will find out looks were just an excuse for you to not try

 

t. disabled

I cannot get gf because 95% of women turn me off when they start talking and I get to know them and how vapid they are

t. assburgers

You are not that interesting either and your lumpy body is a big turn-off

t. girl

All celibacy is voluntary. Do everyone here a favor and stop posting this self pity bullshit

i do not care about sex, but i wish cute girl and love

can't relate

 

getting gf is horni

 

bernd =/= horni

same

t. never been loved

How to become asexual?

castrate

Have sex with me once, then you will never want to do it again

First why do you want a gf? I want to understand incels.

Im 20 yr old now and I don't think about nor though about having a go that much. It is impossible to be incel in my country where the ugliest and shortest of men can have women.

 

The reason is that I don't see myself capable of giving love. The probability that we will break up is higher those times. Also people see love today like an adventure or connection which could easily break for more pleasure or needs whatever and if sex is the most important thing then I don't need a gf a just a female friend or not who I can have casual sex.

A gf for me would be for future wife and family reasons. Not a hot sexual adventure who unconsciously people desire. Maybe my mind is kinda different. Because culturally everyone is... different than me in my circles even my family. And never my family pressured me into having a woman or immediate marrying and have children. Since high school I don't see too care about love ideas or ideal bf or gf that people around my age likes to talk.

And this is the reason I don't get depressed like Incels.

So why do you want to have a gf?

I want gf because I want to feel loved

Why do you want to feel loved?

at 8 I realized how toxic my family was, the men got a girl pregnant and ruined their lives, the women looked for the brown Chad and ended up in poverty

I think my generation would be different but all my cousins ​​made the same mistakes and now they live miserable

On the other hand, at 24 I have never had a girlfriend, I have not even had my first kiss but I lost my virginity at 23 with a prostitute

I don't feel bad about not having a partner, I feel proud, I have a shitty job but I'm doing better than my whole family

I can spend my salary on what I want and continue with my autistic hobbies

The good thing is that the family doesn't put pressure on me to have a partner since we had an argument and I told them all their truths and how miserable they are, since then they haven't spoken to me and I'm better this way

I am the only one with emotional and financial stability of the whole family

for me it's not just the gf part but everything. i'm such a broken pathetic human being. there is nothing for me but death. it's over. sometimes self doubt is just self awareness.

 

before i kys myself i want to give others misfortune too. that's the tragedy of nature. many will suffer without reason

Are u a lesbian?

Why do you torment yourself so much for not having a girlfriend?

High libido and I haven't jerked off in days

Stop obsessing with women and start to hate them

Kys

My best fren loves a girl that seems to love me. I sent them on a date but obviously he got rejected.

just have sex, then you won't be incel anymore, and therefore life won't be hell

you don't need a gf to fuck women

but I don't want to fuck women, I want gf

degenerate!

Based my countrymen, teach them the ways of Chad

update: she just fucked me on a random bench outside

Blackpilled against.

 

Why didn't girls ever show me any interest when going out in groups? Why has no girl ever not just ignored me? What is wrong with me? Everyone around me other than literal deformed freaks (and even some of them) has had lots of casual sex, meanwhile I am ignored and treated as if I don't exist. I don't even ever get invited for anything, and whenever I tried inviting anyone nobody comes.

its all in ur head

Have you tried being not an insufferable piece of shit?

you seem to be projecting

i used to be like that too, then i started to smoke pot and became social

also in most of my free time i work on myself (work out, study, practise violin/guitar..) recently girls around me started to notice this and they like men with goals

 

also judging from your posting style, you tend to talk a lot, a lot of men do this and it is annoying not only for women

try to show interest to girls by asking them questions instead of showing off your knowledge, let that knowledge be your secret weapon

 

i can very well imagine that you are being avoided because you talk in essays just as you post

I was like that when social and smoking pot

it is painful being the onny guyein group whom women avoid gompletely

 

now I no longer have friends and I only suffer alone instead of in company of otters who don't suffer and don't understand why can't I get girls just like them

It's better not getting attention from girls than being such an annoying obnoxious douchebag like this guy

Holy cringe

Rude.

But maybe I should've been an obnoxious douchebag myself, then.

kek stay mad

the thing is i saw your pictures and i think you look good, it must be the behaviour

I only attract men

hot

what are you struggling with bernd (besides not having a gf ofc)? If it's about friends, you could try making some online. 4chan's /soc/ board is a good place to do that