B-but there are people who are happy in life, how do they do it?

First you need to reject pleasure, then you will be happy.

I want to feel pleasure and be happy.

it's simple

they aren't bernds

Have you tried not desiring for shit that's out of your reach that you don't even need? Give up on your foolish dreams and just relax

How to become normie

 

I need happiness in my life or at least a purpose.

Ah of course, good you realize that. Do what everybody else does, pick a God and worship, that usually does the trick. All the purpose you need for a prayer once a week

yes we are retard

Pleasure and happiness are opposite, you cannot have both.

Pleasure is ephemeral, and it leaves an emptiness feeling.

Happiness, in the other hand, last a long time and only leaves greater feelings, like love and fullfilment.

How do I actually reject pleasure? It's what my mind and body crave.

damn, life could be so easy

Discipline, and stop running away from pain.

Have you ever climbed a mountain?

Its just like that, when you are climbing your body will feel pain, and will want to quit. But the mind has to be stronger, once you are in the top of the mountain, you will forget about the pain, and will star feeling joy.

Yeah we make our own lives difficult for no reason. Simple solutions exist for everything

 

Happiness and purpose are one and the same. The people who are the happiest are the ones who have purpose. They rarely are the ones who feel the most pleasure.

 

For example, if you ask people with small kids how they feel at any given moment, they usually say they feel like shit. But parents also usually report being happier than almost any other group of people. It's because their lives have purpose.

 

We all suffer. The ones whose suffering have purpose, are happy. The ones who seek pleasure all the time don't usually have any true purpose, and that's why they are actually very unhappy.

 

Mexico, it's not joy, it's oxygen deprivation!

 

I just want to be happy in life. Is that too much to ask for?

what happened bernd? tell us,

Sometimes ignorance is bliss

almost based

the only way to find purpose is looking your innerside first and then your context in life

Dont fully listen to him he will make you an incel kek

kek, i think he is trying to say to you, "make stuff that makes you feel alive"

 

Yep it's difficult

Happiness is nothing but a bunch of empty promises.

the entire life is a cope so don't think so much about it n don't be incontinent

Happiness is not outside, stop fooling yourself it's inside

work on yourself

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