November is still autumn and cozy on its own. Then comes christmas and only then the real unpleasant winter starts, but christmas coziness is already being removed after 24th december.
Originally Yule/Christmas was celebrated in the darkest time of the year to counteract the dark and sadness with something joyful. We should celebrate christmas in december or december/january instead of already november.
I'm also salty because my birthday is at the end of the month and christmas has always overshadowed it. It's difficult to organise a birthday party because there are already christmas happenings all the time.