I met a woman from tinder and if she didn't have horse teeth and a gum smile I might really like her so I feel kind of bad about it all. But then, would she ever have looked at me, if she didn't have such a flawed upper jaw? And why is life so sad?
This is what OP and many Bernds have difficulty to understand. A Bernd is full of flaws and defects, yet he expects the gf to be perfect with no defects, so he rejects or ignores all gfs who are not good enough. Bernds live with their heads in the clouds