people in general just make me uncomfortable now
Do girls scare you bernd?
They scare me.
When I observe the students in the area and in this apartment complex they seem to be partying normally, not maybe in bars and clubs but they seem to have home parties instead, plus they have dating applications that allow women and men with higher status to find each other more easily.
I doubt neurotypicals have had any problems to find sex during the lockdown, it will most likely just have affected the more nerdy and shy men further.
I think so. Even though many Bernds love their computers and videogames, I think it's actually their heroine addiction that rules their lives. In a time where there were simply no internet, you were forced to have more social interactions. There was also less access to sick fetish porn and porn in general to cause addiction. I think a bigger number of Bernds would have turned up as normies because of this, myself included. I actually turned up quite normal, and that is only because of exposure to social interactions, slowly but steadily they molded me to be almost normal.
Internet, video games, porn, imageboards are sort of this negative force that pulls you away from becoming normal, because they let you "escape" into them instead of going outside of the comfort zone that forces you to interact and grow mentally. Of course there are some Bernds that would have 0 social interactions, but I am sure it would be much much harder to sit at home alone with only books and magazines as your company, I think a much bigger number of Bernds would be looking for human company, then be it in book clubs or whatever. But with internet, you can just sit at home and waste time on the computer. With books it becomes very boring quickly.
Also, social circles are smaller, women had much smaller circles to pick men from. Compare that to how they now can look for more men in a bigger area and directly reject a big part of men since there is much better ones.
Oh and I don't know about other countries, but back then a bigger amount of women also stayed in smaller towns and villages keeping the female-male ratio somewhat in balance, but today most young females move to big cities to study, leaving smaller towns with many single males. Combine this with even tougher competition on dating apps in the bigger cities, I think we can come to the conclusion it is way harder today for an average guy to get a gf compared to how much easier it was for earlier generations to get one, I doubt you needed much more than a) not to be a complete alcoholic b) have a job. The minimum standards have risen terribly today especially since women are so status and money driven and they are obsessed with higher education and salaries. A big part of men simply don't fill even minimum requirements today that women have.
I do however fully understand the female point of view; a grown man who is unable to get a job/education, isn't able to dress decently, doesn't take care of his hygiene, isn't able to perform basic grooming (like decent haircut), does no physical exercise, eats unhealthily, and worst of all obsesses about video games & japanese cartoons. It is understandable that women do not want anything to do with these males.
But who is to blame that such a big amount of males are growing up to be viewed as utterly unattractive by females? It's like these males are unable to even have a life, they are just hollow shells trapped by addictions, be it alcohol, drugs, video games, porn.
I think there is a big difference in how women and men are raised up. Girls from quite the young age start learning how to dress, how to do make up, how to have relationships etc. Just look at boys and girls that are teenagers, most boys just wear any hoodies that their mom bought them and don't care/know how to dress while girls have already started to focus resources on fashion on such. So boys are immature and nobody tells them how to start taking steps towards adulthood, while girls have started the progress. And they will of course be more attracted to either the minority of boys who are more mature/confident or then towards older boys/men.
My point is that we should start raising boys in a different way and try to close this gap, start to actually raise boys to be men and not leave them to "find their way", since it's obvious that many boys today are unable to find the way and might end up as pornaddicted sissytraps, videogame addicts, Bernds and other sad shells of human beings. I think it's inhumane to let so many boys grow up like this, I think it is sadism to watch them live their tortured lives.