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SwedenBernd2021-03-13 16:30:35 · 5yNo. 111907reply
I smoke weed about 2-3 times a year.
When there is a good occasion like a birthday me and my friends often let it go with a joint and some music.
 
My partner now says she doesn't want to be together with someone who "takes drugs".
I don't want to lose her because of weed but I also don't want to quit the cozy summer evenings I sometimes have with my friends / cousins.
 
Why are women so stubborn? She seems to have bad experiences with people around her who were actual addicts to some hard stuff, but this is MY life and I have a stable job, family and in general everything is going well.
I feel like she is imagining the perfect future husband in me and doesn't give a shit about my needs and what I like. It is very obvious that I have it under control.
 
Yesterday she even tried to emotionally blackmail me by saying things like "I'm not even sure if I can sleep with someone who takes drugs" or "After a fun weed evening with friends you will come home and see tears, so it is better for us both if you don't take drugs".
 
Yet, drinking is totally okay and she even does it herself sometimes despite "hating" it.
I do not drink at all by the way.
 
What would you do?
SpainBernd2021-03-13 16:33:54 · 5yNo. 111908reply
you work in a stable? ha ha
SwedenBernd2021-03-13 16:36:16 · 5yNo. 111909sagereply
GermanyBernd2021-03-13 16:54:22 · 5yNo. 111911sagereply
GermanyBernd2021-03-13 16:55:33 · 5yNo. 111912reply
Stop taking drugs man. They just damage you, your GF is right.
United StatesBernd2021-03-13 17:31:10 · 5yNo. 111920reply
drugs can be a lesser of evil
but if its only couple times a year for you then its not worth it to give up so much else for it
just make her stop drinking
see if the same logic applies when something she likes
if not then maybe she just wants control
GermanyBernd2021-03-13 17:42:40 · 5yNo. 111928reply
Stay calm and keep doing what you are used to doing and what you enjoy. Unless you actually have a drug problem and are lying to us and yourself, she will eventually shut up.
SwedenBernd2021-03-13 17:52:47 · 5yNo. 111930reply
>maybe she just wants control
 
I'm afraid of this tbh, I will have to find out the truth.
 
>she will eventually shut up
I hope so, but yesterday she was crying around that she could never never ever live with someone who t a k e s d r u g s .
 
Here is the thing, if she is genuinely afraid of it and worries about me and my future, then I could stop these nice evenings, they are rare anyway.
But if she just hates it for no reason, imagining the perfect husband in me and doesn't want to accept the fact that I do something she does not like, then she can go fuck herself.
United StatesBernd2021-03-13 17:57:47 · 5yNo. 111932reply
the emotional manipulation thing with the crying seems like a control thing
New ZealandBernd2021-03-14 01:36:46 · 5yNo. 111992sagereply
Swedes all type with such a feminine prose, its a wonder how you aren't all passive homosexuals.
 
But cool larp bro
SloveniaBernd2021-03-14 09:46:28 · 5yNo. 112026reply
>"takes drugs"
>drinking is totally okay
You know what is even more bizarre?
 
People who have such disdainful views yet are coffee-buzzed all the fucking time.
People who make jokes about how they can't even function before having their morning coffee. (There's so many keins like that, holy fuck.)
 
Caffeine is so normalised people don't even think of it as a drug. When objectively, it's a hard drug, just like cocaine. In fact, one should consider caffeine as even more dangerous than cocaine – they are both about as addictive, they both have similar effects, however – to get as high as hardcore cocaine users do on caffeine, is actually much more life-threatening.
Sure, few dope on pure caffeine – but this doesn't make it any softer than cocaine.
 
I bet your gf drinks coffee. Am I right?
SpainBernd2021-03-14 09:51:09 · 5yNo. 112027reply
casein b in cheese/wrong type of milk hooks you worse than heroin
 
why do you think all these western-diet-fatties are fat?
GermanyBernd2021-03-14 10:20:27 · 5yNo. 112028reply
He is German with VPN.
SloveniaBernd2021-03-14 11:52:50 · 5yNo. 112036reply
I assumed it was about unsaturated fats and fructose.
SpainBernd2021-03-14 11:56:11 · 5yNo. 112037reply
cheese is garbage if you eat it alot (milk type b too)
you can read about it on wikipedia, it is official science
SpainBernd2021-03-14 11:56:29 · 5yNo. 112038reply
also it is mostly fat + salt
SloveniaBernd2021-03-14 12:03:27 · 5yNo. 112039reply
I'm very doubtful considering eating shitloads of cheese is basically traditional alpine diet and yeah people here used to be strong and healthy
SpainBernd2021-03-14 12:05:30 · 5yNo. 112040reply
it depends, but with modern cheese/lifestyle/diet it is basically that make you fat and hooked on cheese/milk type b
if i will eat cheese i will get fat overnight
SpainBernd2021-03-14 12:07:46 · 5yNo. 112041reply
and you know why you get hooked? because you're not a damn calf, calf should be hooked on milk type b/cheese but not you
with milk type a (old milk/or from eastern europe/east) it doesn't happen, the casein doesn't hook you
 
some cows produce wrong milk
GermanyBernd2021-03-14 12:44:19 · 5yNo. 112043reply
this
i torrent a lot of stuff so usually 2-3 days a week I hide behind a swedish VPN.
 
>I bet your gf drinks coffee. Am I right?
she drinks tea only, apparently it helps to be slim.
she refuses to take anything that can "change her brain or body" like alcohol, coffee, energy drinks, the pill, corona vaccine, pretty much any drug in general, including sugar recently.
 
I don't know why she is like that but I can respect that mindset.
I just wish she would stop worrying and crying like a baby after I had a fun and high evening with my friends.
SpainBernd2021-03-14 12:46:53 · 5yNo. 112044reply
>including sugar
 
based
 
>hurr durr tea
tea contain more caffein that covfefe
i dropped tea somewhat, altho c. has nearly no effect on me (except probably still fucks me)
SloveniaBernd2021-03-14 14:55:51 · 5yNo. 112048reply
>>hurr durr tea
>tea contain more caffein that covfefe
its dont
t. done caffeine extraction on both tea and covfefe
 
of course – it depends on your dosing though
I regularly drink 1L of tea, idk of anyone who drinks 1L of covfefe (except for americans (whom drink'st watery covfefe))
FinlandBernd2021-03-14 14:57:57 · 5yNo. 112049reply
 
Stop abusing your body. You don't need drugs in your life - but you do need love. It is time to choose, it seems your girl is telling you you can't have both.
NetherlandsBernd2021-03-16 14:57:31 · 5yNo. 112163reply
maybe you should both drink water only and eat protein powder, flour and vitamin tablets mixed in water and salt. and nothing else, and never have fun again.
FinlandBernd2021-03-16 17:04:16 · 5yNo. 112167reply
cannabis is more beneficial to one's wellbeing than some emotionally unstable bimbo
GermanyBernd2021-03-18 05:20:15 · 5yNo. 112235reply
>"I'm not even sure if I can sleep with someone who takes drugs" or "After a fun weed evening with friends you will come home and see tears, so it is better for us both if you don't take drugs".
 
Nice psycho mind games. I seriously hope you don't put up with this shit.
Get out before you do something stupid like buying an apartment or even having a kid with her. You will not be losing her because of weed but because she's being a manipulative cunt so good riddance.
And she won't stop at weed with friends. Her next project will be something you like more and do more often than 3 times a year.
Also >>112167.
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