Don't know. Since 16 I wanted to go far away and never come back. Dreams are coming true I guess.

Tho I didn't want to abandon them completely, but they abuse my kindness by disturbing me with the calls.

They are worried about you most likely, answer at least your mom.

Why should I care about their worries? They can go to a doctor if they worry about something. I'm grown up man that can have his own family already. Don't you find it awkward to be worried about someone that old?

Maybe, but for her it was just a moment ago you were her baby suckling on her teats. Parenthood never ends, or so says my mother who worries about me and my 40+yo siblings.

Your mother might be overprotective. You really don't wanna this disorder progressing and seeing how at 70 she asks you not to go outside of the house 'cause it could be dangerous.

Parenthood should end at some point, she can keep her love tho.

Utter nonsense. Caring about you is not the same as trying to control you.

Did you have a bad childhood

Yep.

It's about not controlling her own emotions and trying to overcome that by using others, with age thing will go worse and worse.

Was your mum absent or abusive?

Absent.