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GermanyBernd2020-08-27 20:09:00 · 6yNo. 100146reply
How to get gf? I don't want to be lonely anymore.
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 20:10:07 · 6yNo. 100147reply
aim a little lower tbh
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 20:20:25 · 6yNo. 100149reply
GermanyBernd2020-08-27 20:24:50 · 6yNo. 100150reply
I joined tinder with good pictures and get a decent amount of matches. But no girls seem to be interested in carrying a conversation or meeting irl.
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 20:26:21 · 6yNo. 100151reply
>last pic
lmao
well theres exceptions
but they dont make the rule
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 20:29:08 · 6yNo. 100152reply
Then go wild go crazy! Use it to shitpost, drop all inhibitions! Who cares about convo, if they don’t want a convo then say whatever KC tier ‘tism you want and do it with pride!
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 20:30:07 · 6yNo. 100153reply
prolly not gonna get him gf
could be fun tho
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 20:31:22 · 6yNo. 100154reply
If he’s already in a situation where he’s not going to get a gf might as well say fug it and have fun. It’s a hail marry but sometimes it comes off as such cocksure confidence it actually works
GermanyBernd2020-08-27 20:32:27 · 6yNo. 100156reply
Probably not terrible advice. If I don't do it, the conversation stays dead anyway. If I say something unexpected, it might at least spark some attention.
GermanyBernd2020-08-27 20:55:01 · 6yNo. 100157reply
I have already done it. It will become just boring and low iq KC.
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 21:01:59 · 6yNo. 100159reply
RussiaBernd2020-08-27 21:20:22 · 6yNo. 100161reply
Gfs are overrated. It's probably sexual relief you're looking for rather than actual bonding with someone, so just start going to prostitutes or better, find Christ and forget about women instead.
GermanyBernd2020-08-27 23:14:47 · 6yNo. 100168reply
Update:
Went through my list of tinder matches again and double- or even triple texted some of them. Two grilles replied again, one was more boring but the other one seems really cool and I managed to transition away from tinder with her. We now write on telegram and I asked if we wanted to meet. She said yes, but is busy this weekend. I think it went pretty well overall.
 
No, I'm actually not. I want human connection and companionship. I know some sociopathic bernds can't understand this and see women only as walking fleshlights.
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 23:47:58 · 6yNo. 100171reply
Lmao I give advice in this thread but I’m too afraid to actually talk to the one girl who liked me ??
GermanyBernd2020-08-27 23:49:57 · 6yNo. 100172reply
Not surprising.
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 23:53:06 · 6yNo. 100173reply
>No, I'm actually not. I want human connection and companionship.
i did a schizopost for some burger on here the other day about this. prolly a couple pages back by now.
moral of the story is >>100147 basically
theres a lot of subpar grils out there who want the same shit as you, but have similarly given up after being rejected/ignored their whole lives
you play your cards right, you could both end up scratching one anothers back in this regard.
 
if youre not just looking to coom in something in which case im with the ruskie, just buy a whore. way easier. AND ultimately cheaper tbh, then id recommend trying to gun for a gril that maybe doesnt look so great, or looks like she has some serious insecurities.
dating apps are rife with whores, just looking for chadcock for the night. these types are usually fucking awful, demanding and stuck up, and just generally a chore to be around when youre not inside of them.
thiccer grils on the other hand, WILL suck your duck, and theyll love you just for you giving them the opportunity to do so.
 
and if you get tired of her eventually, just break it off. not like you gotta get married or some shit.
and at the very least youll have some more experience under your belt for next time, and prolly get to know a little bit more about what exactly it is you want in an gf
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 23:57:54 · 6yNo. 100174reply
I can’t force myself to find anyone new. Ever since I lost the only person who ever cared about me because I’m a schizo and a fugup I just subconsciously refuse to want any one else back in my life. And if she doesn’t want me then I’m okay with just being alone, even though I make these ‘tinder’ threads and give my shit advice.
I just want to die soon so I can be free of my guilt and self hate
 
t. KC mod americano who drinks himself to death every night
United StatesBernd2020-08-27 23:59:00 · 6yNo. 100175reply
I am convinced I have brain issues and should be with no one now because of it.
I’d so drugs if I wasn’t a bernd and also too 89iq to buy from internet
United StatesBernd2020-08-28 00:04:18 · 6yNo. 100176reply
>Ever since I lost the only person who ever cared about me because I’m a schizo and a fugup I just subconsciously refuse to want any one else back in my life
known feel tbh
 
but try to drink less m8
that alone will clear your head up more than you think
not to be all sappy, but there really is someone out there for everyone. you just gotta keep your stick on the ice, or youll miss the pass.
and if you never get the puck, you can never take a shot
RussiaBernd2020-08-28 01:36:27 · 6yNo. 100179reply
I'm not talking from this point of view, don't worry. It's more like they are not worth it in a way of not having anything to offer other than children. Even sex is easily replaceable and forgettable, it's not the most pleasant thing on Earth, far from it, in fact.
 
I mean, what was the last time you enjoyed a meaningful conversation with a female, thinking "hell, now that's a person with interesting and coherent views and things to say?"
United StatesBernd2020-08-28 02:12:40 · 6yNo. 100185reply
I just don’t feel like I deserve to be loved again.
 
Here was someone who cared about me and all I cared about was hating myself, to the point I threatened to throw myself from our commie block in Budapest. I don’t want to see myself with anyone else because I don’t want to hurt someone again. I’d rather die alone.
DenmarkBernd2020-08-28 03:16:13 · 6yNo. 100189reply
Nice bro keep going
GermanyBernd2020-08-28 11:02:32 · 6yNo. 100202reply
Thanks, will do.
United StatesBernd2020-08-29 12:44:56 · 6yNo. 100292reply
Just woke up from a dream.
 
Reaffirmed I will be lonely for the rest of my life.
 
I think the part about it that hurt the most was the most realistic part and that was asking my ex if she wanted to spend time with just me again and her saying in complete callousness that the only reason she spent time with me in the first place was to use me in a completely practical and unloving way, but because she is a woman it came off like she cared.
 
To people I’m nothing more than a means to an end. No one actually cares about me. Perfect way to start my weekend is to wake up and realize I feel lonely, unwanted and unloveable and it will always be like this, forever, until I can’t take it anymore.
 
I’m going to be replaying that scene in my head all day now of her basically telling me she feels nothing / has no reason to spend time with me. I just want to disappear. I don’t even want a gf anymore, it will just make these feelings worse again.
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