i became fat and ugly when I fell for the gym meme for 1.5 years. i went there 3 times / week
It is so fucking easy to lose weight.
Listen here Padawan, I'll tell you what to do:
1) calculate the calories you burn / day
2) learn the calorie numbers of the food you usually eat
3) constantly eat less than what you burn, have a minus of ~100-200/kcal a day
4) ???????
5) One year later your belly is gone.
You saw my pic above, last summer I was 83kg at 178cm with a good amount of muscle tho
You don't need to restrict the food you eat. Eat whatever the fuck you like but make sure that you get the minus ~100 kcal every single day.
It's simple maths: You - 365*100kcal = a beautiful man
Fuck all these "no X", "only Y" tire diets, calorie mumbers are what matters. Think of it as a minigame you get to play each day.
You want to get to the point where you know by heart how much you can eat of what each day depending how much you moved etc. It's easily learnable in a month and it's a great skill for life anyway.
Example thoughts:
"Hmm, I had 3 slices of bread with goney in the morning, I'll eat menu X and a salad for lunch and an apple in the evening..."
"..Hmm I'd like to eat a kebab but then I'm in 300 calorie +... I can go jogging for 30m and then eat the kebab as a reward!"
A few weeks into this your average appetite will go down, which helps.
Quitting alcohol if you drink helps a LOT. You probably won't even have to chsnge your food at all. Cutting down on the sugar helps too, it's also just toxic as fuck so really try not to eat more than ~25g of it each day, if you do that you'll crave sugar less in no time and less sugary things start to taste more appealing.
Yeah, learn the sugar numbers for food as well, it helps.
Rules exist to be broken. Remember that your goal is to be happy and happiness isn't achieved by suffering. Follow these rules only for 80-90% of your next year and you'll look awesome.
Good luck, Bernd.