How do you cope about the fact of losing friends and wasting a year ? I met fantastic people this semester and I will never see them again because I fucking failed.

If you failed the second or the third time, then it will be obvious that medic school is not for you. So don’t pressure yourself okay, it’s your choice to keep going.

It's the first time I fail. And I am in the second year. I already passed the selection of the first year.

All I can say is, keep trying you’ll do better next time. And hey, now that you’ve given the test, you know what to expect.

You're right.

That’s the attitude, are you feeling less sad now?

Regarding the course of my cursus, yes. But even if I will succeed it will not change the fact that I will lose my friends.

 

Thanks for cheering me up a bit.

I know the feeling of losing a friend, but our reasons are different.

I failed at uni so many times. Wasted so many years.

One year in Munich was completely wasted, I couldn't cope with not having frens & nobody wanted to make frens with me & I also lived too far away from everything. That year really fucked me up.

One year back in Slovenia was also wasted, due to a fucking bureaucratic processing error (website had wrong date for deadline when I checked it) I was unable to enrol & I wasted a whole year to that.

What's worst is though that all my friends moved on & I couldn't make new ones due to masters studies being simply too small groups & everyone already had own friend groups and generally weren't very eager to take me in (they'd forget about me soon). Not to mention e-learning shit since corona.

I live in an imaginary world and pretend it didn't happen. It will all come down crashing soon though. Anxiety hits 200% if I think about it.

You probably need to look more...likeable.

I probably need to be less depressed to get friends, yes.

But I fell into depression because I have no friends.

Such cases.

Exactly! Would it make you feel better, if we became long distance friends?

we are all already friends here on bernd group

I don’t know anything about friends but, I’m pretty sure they don’t argue and insult each other.

Fucking loser. Maybe you should spend more time studying and less time shitposting racist shit on the internet.

Arguing is okay, just don't hold grudges afterwards

You're right lmao

hehe am besten Mountinbike fahren dann stinksch wie dein Käs.

Fuggen mach schacken Cucken Hitlerschehen Schürchenwüchen?

try to stop being a hateful racist, it is the first step against being alone

You should be more racist. It's people around you to blame.

It's alright.

Once you pass it, it will be the easy street.

90% of shit you had to memorize will be something you'll never need, and if by some miracle you do, you can just consult the books again.

It's not a big deal if you kinda suck at school.

ei ihmekään että terveyskeskuslääkäreinä on pelkkiä kehareita

To be a clinic doctor doesn't require too much of you. It's a very grindy job where the same issues get brought up again and again. Same influenza like symptoms, some vague pains somewhere, some random loonies panicking about nothing etc etc etc.

 

Even if you specialize and become a "better tier doctor" that also means most of the med school stuff becomes kinda irrelevant to you, as now you are specializing.