How do I know if I'm non-binary, genderqueer or something like that?

 

I never had an issue thinking of myself as a heterosexual man. But recently I've heard non-binary and other "queer" people talk about themselves and I feel like they are just not 100% fitting stereotypical gender ideals and instead of just ignoring the 5% difference they make a huge issue out of it. I feel like I might be able to pass as *something* by their definitions, which would give me great argumentative power in conversation with these people, if I'm not a cis-het white male anymore.

 

I don't know if any of that made sense. Thoughts?