i don't understand why this poster says stuff like "giving him a chance". I assume by that time he is old enough to live separatelly, and i bet he is not the one who pays for the house. Maybe dad still works somehow and even pays for his computer. And what did he do - bring a girlfriend to his house, where his mother and drug addict father lives? Thats kinda embarassing...i mean i understand he is in college, but how about you meet at the cafes, bars, parks. Why bring her home to your druggie dad and expect anything different?