If you can not get the girls you want, time to improve yourself.
Build confidence if you need more, make more money, care about your looks etc etc.
That's what it means to be a man.
Better accept it and play by the rules than cry about being given a hard task and become an incel.
Else just go get the girls you can get as the current self, but you'll still need to spend time to get and keep them so choose wisely how to use your time.