lol, cum

You're such a loser you even failed at failing.

You allready life in paradies. Just enjoy nature and creat art

Having a Gf (future marriage) and Gaining a skill are not that really complicated and I failed at both....

 

Pretty much :D

Kek

Did you move out of Georgia?

 

Lol

having a gf won't necessarily lead to marriage

 

besides, you haven't failed because your life isn't over yet and you can still do those things

Exactly.

You're a loser, that's true (aren't we all here). But that's ok to be a loser and it might have happened to anyone so you just keep moving (and losing).

I just don't get it, I was good at some things in my life from early on, there was just a point in time where I did nothing for a long time and it's just like everything I do now shouldn't even have been attempting to be done. I should have had some life experience in doing things which I don't have so it's like there was a time where I could have grown up to be certain things but just didn't. I don't know what happened really but I feel like things shouldn't have been like this.

True but that's the first step tp have a wife

And even if im not dead yet, i have no hope fpr improvement, i just dont know how things could be different

A change of environment may help but im not sure

 

The average bernd is very successful ans has many GFS and moneys

Living as a loser is not living:(

 

Maybe you're talking about the lock down years? Those years feel as if they never happened, but i sorta of get your feels, i feel similar

I just mean my entire life, lockdown years didn't mean anything to me.

I feel like when people live their lives normally they manage to find themselves in positions in life almost on their own just by living their lives. It's like I'm supposed to put twice as much effort into the smallest things to manage something that could be considered something to be close to what they have, and I just don't get why I should have so much struggle in achieving normal things. I might be legitimately disabled or something, or maybe just because I decided to isolate myself for too long it has rotten my mind up.

It is, if it's the only living you have. And you can always fight for a better life, in fact it's even easier when you have nothing to lose. And if you fail again it's okay as there's nothing better to do than trying for you anyway.

There's also my best friend who moved to EVROPE a while ago, and started posting a lot of Whatsapp status...

Man I cant help but feel envy, the places look so great, he's living like a king while I rot in the turd world :DDD

 

 

Okay you convinced me with the last part...

Since it can't get worse it can only get better, right?

Pretty solid idea

Or well there's also the possibility of stagnating, heh

What in thinking about is that 4chan screen cap talking about how regular normies/Chad, simply go with the flow of life and end up succeeding in their life endeavors, while the average anon tries to hard with self improvement plans and such things

Im not explaining myself well, but i think that's the idea you're talking about, let me find the screencap

Brutal.

That's kinda what I'm saying here, people just live their lives and it works for them.

I don't know if in my case it was something destined to happen to me or something, it felt like at times I was able to fit in. But it's hard, I've been to many different schools in my life, most of the time I was even popular, except for the last school I was in which was different.

The image puts it very bluntly and makes sense but I'm not completely sure if it's right or not.

I think that in situations similar to those, the best way of living life without it being an eternal way to cope with not being able to be like others who just fit in and live normal successful lives, is to stop caring. Hannah Montana said life's what you make it and it's true.

 

And also not comparing oneself with others would help too, it's a piece of normie advice that actually works.

 

 

 

Maybe you miss HS? (Ignoring the last one you were at) and once you left highschool you felt lost, something similar happened to meh

 

Regarding the picture, it's partially right imo, the part where I think the anon goes off the rails is when he talks about genes. I think the people who can't go with the "flow" are cursed more by environment than by genes

HS was nice and all, having good relations to people is only a benefit and it helps, but I don't think it was the main reason why I strayed from the path of development most people experience in their lives. The last HS I was at I smoked in school, skipped classes, it was all about enjoyment and socializing instead of having something to do with learning to me. I think that what changed me was the absence of a social network, I don't know what happened to me as I grew, but it was like I felt different from other people in some way. Suddenly my old friends were not as important, I was becoming more or less independent for some reason.

True, but there's no harm in trying anyway. I mean, the worst that could happen is you'll end up creating another thread here about what a failure you are.

 

We had a thread about that on the spic board lel

Basically all of us agreed that having contacts is pretty much necessary to get ahead

One of the zetas talked about a girl who was quite smart, but didn't know how to deal with people and socialize and ended up not being able to fulfill her goals, she simply became a teacher.

 

True, in any case I'll just stay making "its over" posts

Thanks dutch bernd

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