No, I have 6 nephews and nieces. I am antinatalist and hope the kids haven’t inherited any common genes from me.

 

And btw, my siblings are mere husks of themselves after breeding, even if Bernd had the opportunity for sex and procreation, I wouldn’t do it.

Is that common for Finlan? Are your of upper middle class?

I am of the poor bydlo class, I have 5 siblings myself so it must be a genetic thing.

 

One generation ago it was normal for my family to have plenty of kids. When my dad was 25 he already had his second kid, eventually 4 in total.

Today everyone is grown up (I'm 30yo) but nobody has kids, something has definitely changed.

(((We need women to work because we keep printing money and it's too expensive to have kids when you're young, goy)))

People need food. What you gonna do? A man can't feed a family anymore.

Really? None of you four? I can't imagine what grief it should be for your parents.

That was my point. It's a rational reaction to delay having kids, but it's entirely because we've been sold a bill of goods

I have no money issues whatsoever but no one wants to have kids with me either.

Have you been asking someone does he/she want to have kids with you?

Oh, that's unexpected. Or at least not the same reason as in Russia. People can get at least one child easily, but rarely go for more.

Last two girls I went on dates with. One of them hates kids and is turning into a wine aunt. Other is an empowered career woman with no mind of her own. Will probably want children when it's too late, or produce one little autist somewhere in her 30s.

How did you ask them about children? Just curious, what words did you use and in what context?

I like to bring up the subject as early as possible to test the waters. With the first it was really obvious,.I mocked some co-worker that rattles about her children to everyone, you know the type, and she made it abundantly clear that kids disgusted her. I tried to convince her a little bit to my point of view but the only time she responded positively at all is when I discussed maternity benefits with her kek.

 

The other is a total workaholic and wants to talk about work most of the time. So I asked her if that means she doesn't want to start a family to hopefully prompt her into a negative, but she said she wants to focus on her career first. She's already 25. I don't think I can salvage that.

 

- Littlebrother seems to become an unemployed failure who lives at home and just sits at his computer. I worry for him a lot.

- Littlesister seems to be retarded - she has always had bf's, latest bf was a supernice local boy they had a house together with but for some reason broke up (I'm guessing she left). I'm disappointed they broke up, he was a good guy. She works some shitty job with kids, little hours, little pay.

- I managed to work at a factory with good salary, saved up, invested stocks, and now I'm studying. I never managed to attract gf, fugged some but it never became serious. I just spent several months trying to make one my gf, but she kept dodging.

- Big sister has shit cashier job but her man has decent income but sister keeps complaining how expensive kids would be. I'm not too impressed with her reasoning. She wastes her money on her dogs.

 

My experience with gf's is that women seem to be either 1) anxious and stressed and relationship is seen as a burden so they don't want one (modern unhealthy expectations seem to take a heavy toll mentally on them) 2) they are womanchildren who travel and party and don't want anything serious to keep them down 3) they are retarded career women who fell for the 'career and man + kids when you are over 30yo'-meme

 

I would be ready to have gf and have kids and support a stay-at-home-wife, but I fail to attract a decent woman for such. And even I have standards, I'm not gonna do anything serious with a woman who is +30, who is fat or is a single mom or crazy.

 

I have given this Tinder dating a try, it has a very low chance of success for me, the likes and matches mean nothing. It is exhausting to try to talk with women who barely even answer, and getting them to continue conversation (I always have to carry it alone) and then to get them on a date.

Oh, you seem pretty skilled in conversations and deceiving lol. I though you would go for straight questions which would sound awkward.

Why do you think this happens to you? I experience it too. Modern people are extremely atomized and noncommittal but surely the biological urge of humans cannot be so weak that you and I are blameless...

 

I can't be too picky, but being even slightly picky as a Bernd can get very lonely. So if I get laid with some single mom or some woman who has extra weight I'll have sex, but I know from the start I won't be committing. And I'm not that superficial - it's just that the ones I haven't commited with turned out to be pretty stupid. I'm not some intellectual either, but if a girl is stupider than me, it's a turn off.

Then there are some girls I was attracted to and I somehow by magic or mistake managed to get laid with, but they didn't feel like committing to me. With one of them I was ready to make an exception, she had a kid from earlier. But after a few fuggenings that too ended like the others, me trying to keep convo/dating/sexing going while they grew distant and uncaring. And these girls I was attracted to, it's not like they were some big boobed models, they were very average.

I'm not blameless, but I have to allowed to have some standards. I'd understand if I was some overweight unemployed alcoholic retard, but I'm quite normal. Except for KC-posting.

subhuman

 

Sounds like a plan of genocide of Finnish population. Wect, what hast thou done?

And that's a good thing.

Bogdan, is that you my friend?

 

I don't think it's a Finnish problem, but more a Western problem. People are living empty meaningless lives where they have been brainwashed to think that only American things like career and money and success matters.

So everyone is stressed out thinking they are not enough, especially women, who think career is something to impress with.

But their biological clock ticks, and is usually awoken when they are past 30yo, and then they are in a rush to find a man. It's a tragedy.

 

 

It's definitely him schizo-shitposting the whole board up.

I wish I saw a woman that wants to impress me with her career. Maybe once in a while I wouldn't feel myself as the only family provider.

Why is an incel subhuman concerned about others having sex?

I was never was worried in my life that I may not have children or that my bloodline could end with me and being a father has always been my goal in life.

Not for genetic bullshit reasons, but having a child is one of the most beautiful thing a man could dream of.

I think three kids would be the best. I don't worry for my brothers at all and my cousins are to young to tell.

Overall, I'm not worried about my legacy.

Does that mean that you're ok to have children with used middle aged woman from say Africa or Iran if you both fall in love with each other?

Luckily I have older brother and he's already has two kids.

Yes of course. Maybe not girls that don't have my age +/-2 years so not middle aged women.

Also physical appearances means not much to me in love. But I can enjoy beautiful girls too!

Please make me your gf.

 

 

Definitely. I've made some real effort to make sure I don't procreate. With billions of people already on the planet, I'm sure one with my faulty genes doesn't deserve to be born.

 

 

Good question. I had to check on that. It seems that the municipality I was registered in as a tax-payer last gets to inherit if there's no will (I have no living relatives, so there's no one to inherit "by default").

 

Should I bequeath my estate to a local protestant parish or to a local eastern orthodox parish?

No need to precise xaxa

 

Continental Protestantism is very good. You should give them money.

Good fucking riddance.

Eastern Orthodox, there are less of them and they need it more.

No, as long as I finish sixth form i'll find some silly bitch who wants kids.

More importantly I really want children. To leave something to the world that is a testament to my correct world view.

 

By having children and trying my best to guide them I retroactively validate my entire life in my own eyes, allowing me to die peacefully.

 

I tried donating sperm but after freezing mobility decreased too much. I will try again in 2 years, maybe. Or maybe not.

 

At the very least the next autistic girl I find who isn't retarded or a whore will get 50 ml of spermatozoa in the vaginal cavity.

I'm having a kid next month

Tell us about it.

What name are you thinking of?

Congrats. What will be his gender have you already decided?

 

What will it be?

Several, I would rather not share here. I'm also overwhelmed and feel unready

It's a boy

Most likely, no.

I also don't worry for my little brother since he is chad.

I am not like him at all but I'm together with a girl since almost three years now and we are planning to marry in summer 2022, when both she and me finished our education.

 

She is becoming an elementary school teacher and I'm a codemonkey. Also she's Russian but came here many years ago, the only thing that shows it is her surname.

 

Kids are planned when we both are around 27, now we're 22.

She wants two, I'd rather have three. Let's see what the future brings.

 

For my taste she's a little too homophobic and racist (like, changing the side of the street when there's a colored person), but apparently she's genuinely scared because some Chechen who was her direct neighbour murdered someone in her city so I guess it's reasonable.

Good for you !

But chechens aren’t people of color are they ?

They're color white.

Oh wow. She is more nazzi than I ever saw in my life. Would marry.

 

They are officially Caucasians.

Nope. I've already got children

Tell us more.

There's not much to tell. I've got three boys. Two of them are twins.

They're a bunch of fucking weirdos, but I love them.

Bernds often say life as a man ends after marriage/children.

Is it true for you?

I'm a bit afraid of doing it in the future.

Lucky you.

Implying Bernd actually lives before marriage.

He does. Free, untamed autism Varg style.

Ok, then you saw what happened with Varg after he left the prison and returned to wife and child. :D

Caged himself.