Bernd
2024-05-04 20:12:03 ⋅ 2w
No. 309267
is it stupid to try to befriend someone who hates you? does it makes you a elementary schooler in eyes of others when you try to make friends?
Bernd
2024-05-04 20:20:31 ⋅ 2w
No. 309272
>if he hates you
Lol.
>does it makes you a elementary schooler in eyes of others when you try to make friends?
No
Bernd
2024-05-04 20:27:28 ⋅ 2w
No. 309275
>>309272
no seriously i don't even know why but i want to make friends despite of everything bad happening, and it even started to work out
Bernd
2024-05-04 20:28:18 ⋅ 2w
No. 309276
it feels pointless, be kind and friendly and supportive when no one asks for
Bernd
2024-05-04 21:16:08 ⋅ 2w
No. 309278
It is hard to find good friends as an adult.
I think it is because as kids we didn't care whether a person is benefitial for you.
Bernd
2024-05-05 05:42:33 ⋅ 1w
No. 309321
>>309278
it is! now people have a high expectations for someone instead of try to befriend despite of how different they are from each other
Bernd
2024-05-05 06:37:14 ⋅ 1w
No. 309329
>does it makes you a elementary schooler in eyes of others
Usually people don't see other people like that. They are more occupied with their own problems. Don't be so self depreciating.
If someone does not reciprocates your gestures you'd better invest your time in somebody else. I think you have these explosions of feelings that make you behave weird to people from time to time and if you want somebody to be your friend he should be able to see that and deal with it. Not everybody can or should be your friend.
Bernd
2024-05-05 08:14:27 ⋅ 1w
No. 309333
>>309329
thank you very much for your support!! oh i have a very patient friend, but he doesn’t last long either (well he's a person too after all), so it’s better to be friends with a psychotherapist
i still try somehow deal with emotion outbursts, sorry for shitposting on /int/ by the way :(
>not everybody can or should be your friend
sad, but true
Bernd
2024-05-05 08:54:01 ⋅ 1w
No. 309334
>>309333
>sorry for shitposting on /int/ by the way
it is fine. Having one crazy person on the board that floods it with posts motivates other Bernds to post more. Otherwise this board would be dead silent most of the time.
Bernd
2024-05-05 10:48:04 ⋅ 1w
No. 309337
>>309334
ah hell yeah we're schizo ranting with this one!!
you seem to be a cool comfortable dude, stay safe!! thank you for listening 🫂
Bernd
2024-05-05 18:41:08 ⋅ 1w
No. 309360
Yes, you should instead do the opposite and make an effort to distance yourseöf from someone who is of a mean character
Bernd
2024-05-05 18:44:37 ⋅ 1w
No. 309361
>>309360
reminds me of "be mysterious" memes
but your words make sense, the only thing that when you get emotional you want to rip the face off instead of keeping distance