Bernd
2024-09-17 11:11:12 ⋅ 2w
No. 320093
My brother has a new gf (1 year) and she needs all the attention she can get from him and it is like all the interesting things in her life are my brother.
Even without being invited she just spawns in our house every day. My brother now plays vidya, practises his instruments, smokes weed, or really does whatever when she is here because obviously he gets bored with her and she doesn't have anything interesting to say besides asking him to comment whatever she has on her opened phone.
Also she doesn't speak english at all so now we watch series with german dub on the big TV whenever she is here and since she is always here this is really starting to annoy me.
My brother deserves better.
I leave all my negative thoughts here because I don't want to talk my brother into something.
Bernd
2024-09-17 11:55:56 ⋅ 2w
No. 320095
man sounds unhealthy, not even codependent relationship, she is too attached to him and she needs to do something with it before it develop into tantrum like "why don't you pay me attention as like i do?", seeking for friends to spend time with for example, whatever to let him and her live their own lives without being this attached
t. did the same
Bernd
2024-09-17 13:14:21 ⋅ 2w
No. 320096
Underage tier
Bernd
2024-09-17 15:45:41 ⋅ 2w
No. 320100
The reason why she is annoying to you and not to your brother is because your brother has sex with her. That means if you can convince her to have sex with you too, you would find her less annoying.
Thank me later.
[spoiler]The happy times when you could gallivant around the neighborhood everyday and steal drugs from other peoples yards is over. Forever. Even if he found a better gf he will still spend less time with you and do stuff with her that you find boring. Soon he will start a family and then you will only be able to see him once a month or so. Time to deal with it.[/spoiler]
Bernd
2024-09-17 20:56:11 ⋅ 2w
No. 320132
>>320100
Nice try.
He will move away from home in a month to study but she has to stay here because of her Ausbildung.
Then either the telationship will change or he'll be fed up real quick by having to be available on the phone all day.
As for me, the reason she attacks me hinterfotzigly is that I already gain all the attention because really it is not hard because whatever I do or mention, it is more interesting than the 10th picture on instagram a day.
And here is what bothers me:
These are some obvious tensions in the air but nobody does something to resolve them.
Usually I really don't mind breaking the ice and diving right into the core talk to get things done but this is their relationship. I feel like I should just wait it out.
Bernd
2024-09-17 21:10:11 ⋅ 2w
No. 320135
>>320132
>These are some obvious tensions in the air but nobody does something to resolve them.
>Usually I really don't mind breaking the ice and diving right into the core talk to get things done but this is their relationship.
i guess they should figure it out by themselves, since they have a responsibility for what happens in their relationship and you shouldn't take the responsibility for that, so just look and wait for what will happen, either way hope she won't emotionally abuse him
>she attacks me
maybe she sees you as a potential danger even if you're a sibling, so she wants to have only her by his side? smells like borderline personality disorder and unhealthy attachment
Bernd
2024-09-18 04:57:30 ⋅ 2w
No. 320156
>>320132
You will miss them when they are gone
Bernd
2024-09-18 07:12:30 ⋅ 2w
No. 320160
Board is for 18+
Bernd
2024-09-18 10:04:48 ⋅ 2w
No. 320167
>>320160
ok sorry
Bernd
2024-09-19 06:46:16 ⋅ 2w
No. 320272
>Also she doesn't speak english at all so now we watch series with german dub on the big TV whenever she is here
Oughtn't people to watch films in German in Germany?
She sounds like a boring girl, by the way. That's a shame. Is she pretty?
Bernd
2024-09-19 10:20:04 ⋅ 2w
No. 320276
>>320272
I like to watch whatever dub sounds best and these days we watch south park. While some characters are arguably better, Cartman and Kyle are unbearable in german. Also, many of the jokes get lost.
Nono, pissing in our garden when drunk and screaming at night into my open window to not watch **like id give a fuck** is not enough, no, now we are clogging the toilet.
Not like this is a bad thing, it can happen to anyone.
But this morning I lay awake in my bed and hear the entire conversation, and when I get out she says: "Hat der jetzt alles mitbekommen?"
Like who the hell uses der/die for people, unless you really don't respect them?
Bernd
2024-09-26 10:21:29 ⋅ 1w
No. 320989
did you hear the fuck sounds from their room??
Bernd
2024-09-26 11:55:07 ⋅ 6d
No. 320994
>>320988
women are disgusting, you would be surprised how much worse women's public bathrooms are they just piss literally everywhere
Bernd
2024-09-26 13:56:02 ⋅ 6d
No. 320997
>>320988
dude what the actual fuck, your brother should talk about her behavior with her until she cause more problems, don't want to sound misogynistic but she feels too comfortable at your place
Bernd
2024-09-26 14:27:26 ⋅ 6d
No. 320998
>>320994
frequent public women's bathrooms often, do you?
Bernd
2024-09-26 15:08:48 ⋅ 6d
No. 321001
>>320998
it's part of my job
Bernd
2024-09-26 15:34:36 ⋅ 6d
No. 321003
Bernd
2024-09-26 20:09:21 ⋅ 6d
No. 321031
>>320093
>I leave all my negative thoughts here because I don't want to talk my brother into something.
Why?! Try it, it's a great way to project power.
t. talked my friend out of a relationship, years later we alienated each other and I don't know where he is, the girl in question is now an absolutely ruined tattoo having femoid.
Bernd
2024-09-26 22:51:49 ⋅ 6d
No. 321061
>>321003
nonetheless someone should to take action, to show at least that behavior like this in unacceptable
btw its still me dw :D
Bernd
2024-09-26 23:30:51 ⋅ 6d
No. 321063
>>321061
How's mainland Russia?
Have you been there before?
Bernd
2024-09-26 23:33:47 ⋅ 6d
No. 321064
>>321063
nah, Krasnodar is the only city of Russia i have ever been